I said that someone made something more important to them than it was to me.
That is the quote of the week!
This is the tool of the week!
Would love to hear from anyone with similar trials in addressing their kids.
Regarding this: I lost ALL control over this...this literal 'life-and-death' aspect to my fatherhood.
My ex-wife and her attorney went psycho-vicious on me by mercilessly exploiting my CSA, PTSD and Depression. The ex deliberately spread the word around town that I was a CSA victim as a child and thus a hazard to the community and children in general. I feel no need to defend myself beyond saying that its a blatant lie. She knew she could exploit the myths and she did.
Now, this town is tiny. There are tons of kids at the ages of my kids. Adults/parents who knew me well fled from the issue and me. Those parents whom I never even met, had no reason to not believe her.
What do parents tell their kids when there's a rattlesnake in the yard? Well, they did the same thing with regard to me. ME...the guy who was considered an intensely awesome dad by neighbors and my kids.
So then my kids are told all this crap through the (now 3rd level) kiddy grapevine. THAT is how I handled this stuff with my kids. I lost my control over my most vital issue in my life.Side-Note:
May God please strike-down those who do these things to survivors.
The attorney was diagnosed with advanced pancreatic cancer just a couple of days after she filed a Fam Court Complaint that was jammed full of lies and made-up garbage. She died a LONG, horrid and torturous death! Thank you God! Oh! And:
I was doing a project with my kids. One of their friend's came over and began to help us. The kids asked me "hey! weren't you raped or something as a kid?"So that's
how this stuff can manifest once activated. But I AM genuinely
use to being forced to eat shit-sandwiches. Been doing it all my life. So if it has to happen to someone, I can take it.