Hi Tim07, I have been married for 26 years and I have no idea what intimacy is?I try to say in touch with her feelings. for me I am a stranger to me and she is a stranger me. I wish I new how to be normal or is this normal? I now her very well in some things and when it comes to sex shes not happy or I have no clue what she wants or even who she is. for her every thing is dirty and for me every thing is boring or distant. some times I think sex is better with a hooker than with my wife just because when its over I am not expected to feel a certain way or act in some way I don't get!
Jut know you are not alone!!!