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#467241 - 07/04/14 04:15 PM trying to gain control
Tim07 Offline

Registered: 07/01/14
Posts: 11
im only 26 being so young as i was being 3 my dad being my abuser i remember alot of things in 2011 a year after he died tis caused so many issues and no matter how much im told im loved and that im not alone i still feel like im told that just to hush me up or something along those lines ive been through several therapist but i think ive finally found one guy that i trust that is gay to where i fit in well

#467251 - 07/04/14 10:02 PM Re: trying to gain control [Re: Tim07]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1600
Loc: New England
Welcome Tim,

I'm sorry for what you've been thru, but glad you've found a therapist you can trust and have joined MS. Most people can't do this alonme and we're all here for one another.

Be well,

Seems I've got to have a change of scene
Every night I have the strangest dreams
Imprisoned by the way it could have been
Left here on my own or so it seems
I've got to leave before I start to scream
Joe Cocker

#467270 - 07/05/14 01:51 PM Re: trying to gain control [Re: Tim07]
Bluedogone Offline

Registered: 07/03/13
Posts: 283
Loc: Southeast US
Hi Tim and welcome,

I'm glad you've taken two giant steps in your recovery. It's important to find a therapist with whom you feel comfortable. And it's also important to realize you're not alone in all this; and MS is a good place to find there are literally thousands in all stages of abuse recovery, from the first realization of their abuse to those well along in recovery. You won't find anyone here who would say, "sit down and shut up" but rather, would invite you to share as much or as little as you feel comfortable doing. And all this without judgement or guilt.

Good luck, and best wishes. Stay safe, heal well.

Never, never, never, never give up....Winston Churchill


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