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#466884 - 06/22/14 01:53 AM My Mantra
tbkkfile Offline


Registered: 09/16/13
Posts: 153
Loc: Surrey, United Kingdom
Most of the time I feel like I'm crawling on shifting sands, but last week while talking to my T he came out with the following, it felt like he'd added some foundations for me to stand on

Quote:
We cannot change the past or change other people
We do Not have to forgive - (forgiveness can cover wounds and allow then to fester)
We Can give back to the others what is theirs and Does Not (and never did) belong to us.


Edited by tbkkfile (06/22/14 04:43 AM)

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#466886 - 06/22/14 02:45 AM Re: My Mantra [Re: tbkkfile]
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Registered: 10/09/13
Posts: 588
Loc: St. Croix, USVI
Hi tbkkfile,

For me, I choose very carefully HOW I give back to others what is theirs. I try to figure out how to let go of what does not belong to me, and then decide if there is anything in it for me to interact with them in a personal way.

Don
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Divine Law is not judgment or denial of self truths. Divine Law is honoring harmony that comes from a peaceful mind, an open heart, a true tongue, a light step, a forgiving nature, and a love of all living creatures. Jamie Sams & David Carson, Medicine Cards

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