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#466065 - 05/31/14 06:52 PM LOOKING FOR A FRIEND
Favero castel Offline

Registered: 06/23/09
Posts: 4
Loc: Edmonton Alberta Canada
I'd like to know guys who would like to have some friendship with me...I'm actually 32yeas old.. i don't have any family and minimum friends that constantly i feed them with a bunch of lies.. anyways, I would like to have someone, just to keep me going.. i think life is hard being totally alone, and i think it is hard to try to be alright everyday. also i think about giving up everything sometimes!! if you would like to try emails, optional mail.. works totally good for me!!
Single man, looking for friends

#466092 - 06/01/14 05:33 PM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
newground Offline
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Registered: 10/11/11
Posts: 861
Loc: michigan
hey bud
I think you have come to the right place to find contacts. people who care about where you are and whats happening in your life. there is so much caution in this community survivors tend to isolate. that being said come on and make some connections chat and share and friendships will develop. you are welcome to message me and we can chat here. while MS is a safe place our guidelines do ask that the guys dont try to contact off site for a time for the safety of all concerned. this gives time for natural growth of friendships and the comfort of all involved. I hope you find what you are searching for soon
Either I will find a way, or I will make one.
Philip Sidney

#466163 - 06/03/14 08:17 PM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
Favero castel Offline

Registered: 06/23/09
Posts: 4
Loc: Edmonton Alberta Canada
thanks i really appreciated
hope to see you around the chat one of this days..
Single man, looking for friends

#467609 - 07/14/14 10:23 PM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
Nate Offline

Registered: 04/30/07
Posts: 94
Loc: Philadelphia, PA
Hey man, feel free to PM me as well. smile
"Love the moment. Flowers grow out of dark moments. Therefore, each moment is vital. It affects the whole. Life is a succession of such moments and to live each, is to succeed."

- Corita Kent

#467672 - 07/16/14 08:57 AM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
dykesde Offline

Registered: 07/15/14
Posts: 2
Loc: Florida
I just started. Married, but alone at times because who do you talk to about this stuff as a "regular" conversation. I just joined yesterday, got authorized today, posted first post today. All I can say is take things slow, but reach out. Glad you are here. It is so easy to isolate. It seems safer, but alone. PM or add me is fine. Welcome..... :-)
What seems to most to be so little, means so much more to those who have so little to take for granted.............friendship.

#467744 - 07/18/14 02:26 AM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
Hopein14 Offline

Registered: 03/07/14
Posts: 7
Loc: CT
I have felt as mentioned, and remain as same, despite marriage, two sons, and 5 brothers. The impact of male sexual abuse is truly staggering, and not one minute passes that I don't wish for a male friend that allowed me to understand what appears to come so easily, naturally to many men, most never having known this legacy of fear, doubt, and forever sadness about what should....just me and my honest reaction to the beautiful statements shared above. I honestly dont know the first thing about being a friend to another male, because my shame is too deep.
Never Again Today

#474855 - 01/11/15 01:01 AM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
Daryl X. Offline

Registered: 12/20/14
Posts: 40
Loc: usa
I'd love to be friends with someone else who needs one.
Mean people suck.

#477147 - 02/13/15 11:32 PM Re: LOOKING FOR A FRIEND [Re: Favero castel]
robwk1988 Offline

Registered: 02/12/15
Posts: 21
Loc: East Coast
I would love to be friends also, please PM me, maybe we can send emails also or even text if we get to know each other more smile
I will overcome my child abuse, no matter how hard it'll be
I know deep down inside somewhere
is a strength I've yet to find

I have the strength to continue
along this stubborn path
No bitterness will deter me
no spitefulness will be heard
that scared little boy will finally emerge from the shadows


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