Where I've come to is that whenever I'm pointing a finger at someone else I may be off base. I can't change the behavior of other people, only my own. So, I'm working on teaching myself to lose the good/bad struggle and simply learn discernment. It seems to hold some promise for me in developing insights into how I consciously and unconsciously choose. May not work for everyone, but it feels to me like setting myself free.
Divine Law is not judgment or denial of self truths. Divine Law is honoring harmony that comes from a peaceful mind, an open heart, a true tongue, a light step, a forgiving nature, and a love of all living creatures. Jamie Sams & David Carson, Medicine Cards