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#460884 - 02/16/14 07:03 PM Abused by the wife of my male abuser
jas4159 Offline


Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 278
I found myself in a real double edged sword. after a few years of being abused by Ernie (24 years older then me.) he introduced me to his wife and threesomes. at fifteen and a strong catholic only made the abuse with her more confusing and painful than with ernie. I was glad i liked women but i was to young to understand any of it. i felt i was going to hell becuase of ernie and his circle of peophiles but i was now committing adultery and that was a direct ticket to hell.

All i wanted to do was commit suicide and of course i couldn't do that because that was a direct ticket to hell also. it sucked being a teenager.

justanothersurvivror.wordpress.com

thanks

rich
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#460960 - 02/17/14 03:17 PM Re: Abused by the wife of my male abuser [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 01/31/14
Posts: 26
Loc: Slovakia
Hello, Rich

I'm so sorry that you've had to go through such difficult experiences in your youth... TO be honest, a few months ago I wouldn't believe, that such heinous acts were even possible, that there are people out there who would commit such things to vulnerable child...

I'm glad that you're still here, that you didn't end your life but chose to live instead. I wish you all the best, Rich

Andy
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#461129 - 02/19/14 09:43 PM Re: Abused by the wife of my male abuser [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 02/03/13
Posts: 335
Loc: NY
Rich:

Yes, being a teenager can be hard, especially in the midst of what you describe.

The material on your website is very articulate and thoughtful. I especially understand the experience of feeling like two people. I hope you will share more aspects of your recovery, here and elsewhere.

FB
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#461496 - 02/25/14 06:21 PM Re: Abused by the wife of my male abuser [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 11/19/09
Posts: 25
Loc: United States
Hi Rich,
I read your post and just wanted you to know that I had a similar experience to yours. I was introduced to the husband in a 3 way situation trap by my female boss (13 years older than me and totally domineering and controlling of my mind and body). I was a very naive 22 year old boy/young man.


Sometimes I feel so alone feeling that this happened to only me. Maybe it can help you to know that you are not alone. I knew the people as well.

Hang in there in there you are not alone. Feel free to PM me if you like anytime.

MIchael

We were both rape victims who survived and I respect your courage for telling your story. You did not commit adultery are not going to Hell, my friend. You are innocent

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#461826 - 03/01/14 08:38 PM Re: Abused by the wife of my male abuser [Re: honorableman]
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Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 278
thanks honor.

rich
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#463426 - 03/30/14 04:09 PM Re: Abused by the wife of my male abuser [Re: focusedbody]
jas4159 Offline


Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 278
thanks focused,

even today i find it hard to believe i lived the life i have. but I have come a long way and found piece. thank you for reading my blog i hope you found it helpful.
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