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#459772 - 01/30/14 12:24 PM Truarts Intro
Truart Offline


Registered: 01/25/14
Posts: 14
Hello everyone. I am happy to have found this site and found a name to put on all my diffuse problems I have had through my life. It is very hard for me to trust people and let them into my life. So in advance I apologize to you guys if I seem distant or cold.

Im here simply because my memories returned this january. The effects had begun to spill onto every part of my life and it became unbearable. I've tried to do loads of things to fix my problems. Everything from PUA to reading self help books or just being more social. Nothing seemed to work, I thought I was flawed.

I'm kinda spent energy wise from depression. So I might not always have the energy to be supportive or chatty. I try my best, if I don't respond in a day or two it has nothing to do with you. Might just be a rough patch.

Either way, it's nice to be here and all the best to everyone on their journey.

/Truart

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#459774 - 01/30/14 12:40 PM Re: Truarts Intro [Re: Truart]
genedebs Offline
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Registered: 11/09/12
Posts: 283
Loc: MO
Welcome Truart

Depression is fairly common for us survivors, so we understand.

This is a safe place, and supportive, in time you may come to trust us. I certainly didn't trust when I got here.

Although I am here now my depression also interupts my participation. Try the chat room, and perhaps the healing circle, I find them helpful, when I am up to it.

We all have different stories but we all are just the same

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#459781 - 01/30/14 01:26 PM Re: Truarts Intro [Re: Truart]
Truart Offline


Registered: 01/25/14
Posts: 14
Cheers genedebs.

I'm sure this forum will chip away at the mistrust I have. It will just take time. From what I've read you guys seem to be really cool people.

Might just try the chat room, been pondering about using it for a few days, never really having dared to enter.

Thanks for making me feel welcome mate.

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#459807 - 01/30/14 10:16 PM Re: Truarts Intro [Re: Truart]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1478
Loc: New England
Welcome Truart!

Rough patches? Yeah, we get that. Don't worry about it. You are safe here.

Be well,

Jude
_________________________
"But now old friends are acting strange,
they shake their heads, they say I've changed.
Something's lost but something's gained in living every day
....it's life's illusions I recall, I really don't know life at all. "
Joni Mitchell

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#459811 - 01/31/14 04:06 AM Re: Truarts Intro [Re: Truart]
Andrew3172 Offline


Registered: 01/23/14
Posts: 11
Hi truart I understand where you are coming from .I find it very hard to trust people .I am getting better but I am still very very cautious of people. I hope that you find your healing and support here .

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