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#459726 - 01/29/14 08:35 PM Re: Sen. Lamar Alexander's Chief of Staff Porn Accused [Re: pufferfish]
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Some good discussion of this issue on a blog I often read (though not typically agree with). The reader comments include color commentary from survivors.

http://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/heart-wrenching-last-words-from-a-suicide/
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#459733 - 01/29/14 10:20 PM Re: Sen. Lamar Alexander's Chief of Staff Porn Accused [Re: SoccerStar]
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Originally Posted By: SoccerStar
Some good discussion of this issue on a blog I often read (though not typically agree with). The reader comments include color commentary from survivors.

http://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/heart-wrenching-last-words-from-a-suicide/


I don't know who one of the posters on the blog is...but he linked to MaleSurvivor.org. Even before I saw that, I recognized that I very much identified with his perspective. Not to call anyone out of course....but I appreciated the input. Aside from that, I appreciate the generally well-constructed thoughts regardless of how they square with what my perceptions are. That said, buyer beware---there are plenty of ignorant dolts who "have it all figured out" for the rest of us. mad

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#459742 - 01/30/14 12:16 AM Re: Sen. Lamar Alexander's Chief of Staff Porn Accused [Re: SoccerStar]
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Registered: 09/27/03
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trigger warning!!!

be careful if you visit this webpage.
i could not handle it.

Originally Posted By: SoccerStar
Some good discussion of this issue on a blog I often read (though not typically agree with). The reader comments include color commentary from survivors.

http://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/heart-wrenching-last-words-from-a-suicide/


while there are some intelligent comments there,
there are some deeply offensive and ignorant ones as well.
i had to stop reading because i was being triggered repeatedly by the dissemination of disinformation.
i think i made it through about three insulting posts before, unfortunately,
i was unable to refrain from sending my own message.
it remains to be seen whether they publish my response.
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#459784 - 01/30/14 03:09 PM Re: Sen. Lamar Alexander's Chief of Staff Porn Accused [Re: pufferfish]
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Nor could I, VV- very triggering, as did the suicide note turn out to be.
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#459893 - 02/01/14 06:05 AM Re: Sen. Lamar Alexander's Chief of Staff Porn Accused [Re: ThisMan]
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my apologies, ThisMan.
it is intense, but i believe he is speaking from his (broken) heart. as such, i felt compelled to post it here on his behalf, although he did not "survive" his ordeal, and i cannot condone his choices. i condemn them. his story only confirms the necessity of disclosure and clearly demonstrates the value of this website (ms.org) and the healing power of peer support.

sorry for offending anyone.
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