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#45942 - 12/15/03 09:15 AM hlelp pllese
Leosha Offline
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Registered: 06/18/03
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plesee bbad mmeories, pllese hellp

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#45943 - 12/15/03 10:41 AM Re: hlelp pllese
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Registered: 09/24/03
Posts: 2154
Loc: Massachusetts
Brother Leo,

I sent a PM. Please read it. You need me, my friend, tell me. I want to help.

Love,

Scot

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#45944 - 12/15/03 02:07 PM Re: hlelp pllese
Mike Church Offline
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Registered: 01/23/03
Posts: 3439
Loc: Toronto, Canada
Leo I am at work and will be home by 4pm if I can help I also replied to your pm

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#45945 - 12/15/03 06:25 PM Re: hlelp pllese
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Loc: England Shropshire
Leosha
My mailbox has some room, especially for you.

Dave

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Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! Live the life you've imagined. As you simplify your life, the laws of the universe will be simpler.
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#45946 - 12/15/03 09:00 PM Re: hlelp pllese
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Leosha, please read my pm to you. Peace, Andrew

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#45947 - 12/15/03 09:31 PM Re: hlelp pllese
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Registered: 06/29/03
Posts: 1983
Loc: Flint, Michigan
Leosha,

PM me if you'd like.

Bill

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#45948 - 12/16/03 12:20 AM Re: hlelp pllese
Don-NY Offline
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Registered: 08/06/02
Posts: 546
Loc: Long Island, NY
Leosha,

Memories are shadows and echoes. They may be strong now, but you are stronger.

I know you are stronger, because even at this very bad time, YOU FIND YOUR WAY TO THIS BOARD, TO ALL OF US, AND YOU ASK FOR HELP.

You aren't alone, and you are cared for probably more than you realize.

Those memories are really weak now because they can't keep you from us or from this board.

They are only shadows and echoes, Leosha. You are real, now is real, this place is real.

Hold on to all this Leo. You will get even stronger and these memories will get weaker and smaller.

Donald

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#45949 - 12/17/03 01:34 AM Re: hlelp pllese
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Registered: 08/24/03
Posts: 58
Loc: New York, New York, USA
Dear Leosha!

The memories can be so ahrsh. But The memories are not who you are. They come from actions that are the property of another.

I am crying for you because I can empathize with what you are going through.

I know from what you have told me that you are a good and decent man. Those are the memories you are creating - just in this last week!!! Those are your memories too. (I would never want you to feel that I am trying to make what you are going through smaller than what it feels like to you. BUT - I know of the wonderful memories that you create. Even when those old memories that come from acts outside of you are present - there are the great ones you have created so recently.

NOW -You also now have the memory of a grown man who knows that what you are expressing here is so true and honest and - also a grown man who understands what it is you are expressing and cries as an action for your sorrow. You have the memories of each one of us who has responded to you and PM'd you!

I will keep you in my thoughts, and I will homour your sorrow for being the truth that iut is. And I will honour the amazing memories that you made last week - and of others I know you have created as well.

You are cared for Leosha!

Asher.

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