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#458512 - 01/12/14 12:45 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: Suwanee]
KMCINVA Offline
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Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 1664
Husky

Safe travels and healthy journey into becoming you.

Best wishes

Kevin

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#458516 - 01/12/14 03:14 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
Lancer Offline
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Registered: 07/13/12
Posts: 901
Loc: Florida
Man, I'm so proud of you taking this HUGE step. I think you'll be amazed at what life is like without the toxicity around you every damn moment.

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#458542 - 01/13/14 03:42 AM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
GT13568 Offline
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Registered: 09/02/11
Posts: 133
Loc: California
Good luck Husky. I checked in late, and you're maybe on your way already. I'm thinking of you and am proud for you.

GT
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I won the moment he hurt me, because he poisoned his soul, and I did not poison mine. I did not hurt anyone. He did. He was the perp. He tried to make me into a victim, but I became a survivor. Yes.

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#458680 - 01/15/14 08:29 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Registered: 11/26/11
Posts: 99
Loc: Hamilton, ON Canada
Husky,

I wish you all the very best on the adventure you're on! Hopefully you'll drop by again soon and let us know how it's going when you get a chance. Good luck!
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#458755 - 01/16/14 07:11 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
WriterKeith Offline
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Registered: 12/30/10
Posts: 951
Loc: southern California
Husky,
Oh, if only I would have had the courage to do what you're doing. 30 years ago my first therapist urged me to separate from the family I was born to. 5 years later another therapist urged me to do the same. 10 years later another therapist begged and pleaded for me to separate from them. 15 years... 20 years... only when they had exhausted my financial resources and re-victimized me did I finally reach a place where I had no choice but to separate. I really had no option. They became absolutely furious because I had taken away their power. Now that I am free from them I regret not having done it earlier in life.
Congratulations, brave eagle; fly high and proud!
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#458821 - 01/17/14 03:17 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
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Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 407
Loc: west coast
The courage to follow your heart is so hard, well done!

I know from a few pm's that you "couldn't" , hopefully that word has left your lexicon.

This is exactly the reason i come back (as one thread asked). To see men find that they do have the courage and character to go against the grain and incredible pressure to see that however they have to live their life, they can!

keep trusting yourself and again, well done.

I had to get away before i could make a bridge back to my family. Time and compassion is what you have to give. Now ironically our bonds are even stronger because they are forged in honesty.

All the best

grant
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#458822 - 01/17/14 03:17 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
1lifenow Offline


Registered: 03/07/11
Posts: 407
Loc: west coast
You are a brave and real MAN




Edited by 1lifenow (01/17/14 05:27 PM)
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WoR Barrie 2011

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#458904 - 01/18/14 06:45 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
WriterKeith Offline
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Registered: 12/30/10
Posts: 951
Loc: southern California
Hey, Husky....let us know how you're doing!
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"A burned bridge can be a gift; it prevents us from returning to a place we should have never been."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JfvAPZGjds

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#458910 - 01/18/14 08:19 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
Magellan Offline
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Registered: 12/31/10
Posts: 1403
Loc: California
I want to know too.
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It's a heroes journey, and you are the hero.

Loving Kindness Meditation will dramatically improve your spirits; give it a try for just 3 days: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sz7cpV7ERsM

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#458945 - 01/19/14 04:33 PM Re: I'm Leaving My Family [Re: concerned_husky]
concerned_husky Offline
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Registered: 08/29/12
Posts: 587
Hey guys,

Thanks for the support again.

The last week has been really tough - some obstacles, to say the least. Financial, immigration, etc. Not to mention emotional. I'm away from my parents physically now, but I've been having trouble reaching my end destination. My spirits are low because life's hurled so many obstacles at me this past week, but they're not broken. I'm still determined to get there, one way or another. It sometimes feels like this journey is destined to fail, but I'm giving fate the middle finger anyway and thinking up of plan Bs and Cs every time something goes wrong.

Will keep you guys posted. I hope I can come back to this thread some time soon to tell you guys, "I'm there." Thanks for checking in.

P.S. Disclosing abuse to an immigrations officer is not a good idea.


Edited by concerned_husky (01/19/14 04:37 PM)
Edit Reason: Added P.S.

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