The above article touches on something that is shared by survivors of sexual abuse by either gender.
There is an idea out there somewhere that men need to "be initiated" into the world of sex. This is sometimes used as a reason for the unwanted attention or aggression from others.
Looking back, I can't think of any real reason why I needed such an initiation, although I did at times buy into the idea. When I did have fun sexually, when there was something good in a relationship, there was no need for initiation, for training, for instruction. It just happened and most of the time there was nothing wrong with it.
Makes me wonder where I ever got the idea that there was something more to "learn" and what I may have lost in thinking that.
Lose the drama; life is a poem.