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#457627 - 12/30/13 11:06 AM Is this all really happening?
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Registered: 07/23/12
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Edited by jay75 (03/28/14 09:28 AM)
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#457628 - 12/30/13 11:37 AM Re: Is this all really happening? [Re: jay75]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3613
Loc: South-East Europe
Hi Jay, it is good to see you man!

I'm sorry to hear the news about your marriage frown

Share with us your problems and search for pain relief and hope.
We all go through rough moments sometimes, it is easier if you are not alone!


(((Jay)))
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#457629 - 12/30/13 11:43 AM Re: Is this all really happening? [Re: jay75]
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Registered: 08/31/11
Posts: 1722
Jay75

Many of us have lived through difficult times-the past controls us until we face and accept the abuse. It is is tough journey ups and downs.

You are confused because the abuser fragmented you--so you could not get to know yourself. He left you with a part of an imprint that love comes from the abuse. You need to seek support, therapy and you must accept the past. Only then can you truly understand who you are.

Darkness may surround you now, but you need to seek support and help. You have taken a step coming here, sharing your need for support. Please continue we are here for you.

Kevin

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#457633 - 12/30/13 12:38 PM Re: Is this all really happening? [Re: jay75]
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Hey Jay,

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. But I want to echo what others have said.

Indeed, life can suck sometimes and we just want to recoil and withdraw into isolation. This very tactic is what keeps us locked in this state. We have to do the opposite of what we feel compelled to do. We must reach out. We must talk. We must share. We must know others who have also endured what we endured, in their own ways.

We're Survivors. That means we know each other in ways that no other person can.

Trust us and hold on.
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#457635 - 12/30/13 01:26 PM Re: Is this all really happening? [Re: jay75]
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Edited by jay75 (03/28/14 09:29 AM)
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