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#456963 - 12/17/13 07:43 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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#456964 - 12/17/13 07:44 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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In the howling wind
Comes a stinging rain
See it driving nails
Into souls on the tree of pain
From the firefly a red orange glow
See the face of fear
Running scared in the valley below
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#456967 - 12/17/13 09:43 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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Registered: 10/09/11
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Originally Posted By: Sven
I e-mailed with a dutch helpline about chat counseling but it's hard to find a time that works. Might consider e-mail counseling instead. Who knows. It;s a start, i guess. I can't talk about this shit or even have to be in the same room as them so idk, this is the only option for now.

This is great news Sven. Please do is as soon as possible (you need any help available no matter is it trough mails, chat, phone or directly). And yes it is an important start and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you to get involved and share all what you have and get support. It doesn't have to be one on one and in personal. You can and should ask them too for disocciation triggers, grounding and similar...
Keep us updated and please send that mail ;-)

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#457006 - 12/18/13 11:51 AM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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I will have my first chatmeeting next week friday. Let's see how that goes, i guess
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In the howling wind
Comes a stinging rain
See it driving nails
Into souls on the tree of pain
From the firefly a red orange glow
See the face of fear
Running scared in the valley below
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#457083 - 12/19/13 05:32 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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In the howling wind
Comes a stinging rain
See it driving nails
Into souls on the tree of pain
From the firefly a red orange glow
See the face of fear
Running scared in the valley below
~ Bullet The Blue Sky - U2

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#457085 - 12/19/13 05:35 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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Tell us if you'd feel better. You can always send me PM Maybe it is easier to find some solution when beeing in company of surviovrs...
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#457088 - 12/19/13 06:16 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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In the howling wind
Comes a stinging rain
See it driving nails
Into souls on the tree of pain
From the firefly a red orange glow
See the face of fear
Running scared in the valley below
~ Bullet The Blue Sky - U2

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#457171 - 12/21/13 05:46 AM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 5514
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no doubt you are experiencing a whirlwind of powerful emotions that are threatening to overwhelm you one after the other.

just try to let them flow through you.
don't let them collect and cluster.
let the crows fly over your head.
don't let them nest in your hair.

i am sending you my best wishes.
glad you are taking positive steps.
keep the communication lines open.
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#457499 - 12/27/13 06:52 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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So I broke my wrist (again) today (friday).
It was B's fault this time.


Edited by Sven (07/03/15 07:32 PM)
Edit Reason: rambling
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In the howling wind
Comes a stinging rain
See it driving nails
Into souls on the tree of pain
From the firefly a red orange glow
See the face of fear
Running scared in the valley below
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#457512 - 12/27/13 10:54 PM Re: So the secret is out... [Re: Sven]
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Dear Sven,

No matter what you do about reporting B, please, please, please, make it very clear to him that you want nothing more to do with him. And then stick to it.

This broken wrist should make it very clear that B wants nothing good for you. Next time it could be worse. Get him out of your life before its too late.
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