I've just relocated this post to the Family & Friends Forum, where I thought she might get a better viewpoint.

But she's also asking important questions that Male Survivors might well have some very important points to add, so please pay the Fam' & Fri' a visit and have a look at this post.

And remember to have a regular look there, we can answer a lot of questions there.

Dave

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