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#454128 - 11/17/13 11:44 AM Been away for a bit.
Lost Mountain Offline

Registered: 12/05/12
Posts: 47
Loc: Atlanta
Sorry I have not kept in touch I have been having a rough time of it lately. My T is great but when it came to discussing some hidden feelings. Things did not work out that well. On top of being abused as a child and raped as an adult. I grew up with my mom and sister,4 aunts 8 girl cousin,s. A big part of me felt feminine. I guess you could say I am an underclothes cross dresser on top of all that. Anywho my T is not at all familiar with this at all and when she started asking questions I felt dirty and ashamed. And thus I withdrew and isolated a did a little SH. I am suppose to see her this week and I hope and pray we do not mention the subject.

#454143 - 11/17/13 03:29 PM Re: Been away for a bit. [Re: Lost Mountain]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3889
Loc: somewhere in Africa
LM -

i am sorry you are having this difficult time. i just want you to know that your secrets are no "worse" than anyone else's. they are not ones that i have had to deal with - but i do not criticize or judge or condemn you for them. i am glad you felt free to share this - and hope you feel the support and acceptance here that lets you know that we accept you and that you are not alone.


PS - glad you came back!

Edited by traveler (11/17/13 03:30 PM)
Edit Reason: PS
"the scariest thing about abuse of any shape or form, is, in my opinion, not the abuse itself, but that if it continues it can begin to feel commonplace and eventually acceptable."
- Alan Cumming, "Not My Father's Son"

#454150 - 11/17/13 03:51 PM Re: Been away for a bit. [Re: Lost Mountain]
peroperic2009 Offline

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3739
Loc: South-East Europe
Hello Lost Mountain and welcome back!
I'm sorry to hear for your troubles. I hope you'll get well with yourself, there is no reason for you to feel ashamed.
I have had a lot of troubles with shameful feelings, still trying to learn how to accept my self.
I wrote one topic recently about shame. It was very important for me to learn that shame is result of interaction of two persons, not one, not me. I always have had idea that something is wrong with me originally and that I should shame because of it. Well it wasn't the case. I was shameful of me because I looked on myself trough someone esle's eyes.
So I'm very happy that you are here with us and that you are confident enough to share your intimacy.
Keep sharing!

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