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#454052 - 11/16/13 06:28 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
Frustrated Offline


Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 192
Lapchinj yes you. You are an incredibly strong person.

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#454061 - 11/16/13 09:28 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1197
Loc: New York
Hey Frustrated,

Thank you for the kind words, I just wish I could agree with you. My world came crashing down around me almost 3 years ago and I'm still trying to dig my way out. I hope to be successful but the outlook at the moment pretty bleak.

I saw this thread and read every post here. There are so many chilling posts here with people trying to reclaim their lives. This thread is real evidence of destroyed childhoods plus who and what destroyed them. None of this should ever have happened and I am only one of those stories. Everyone here is incredibly strong just for the fact that you and the rest of the MS family came here in the first place. I just hope that we will all be successful in our journeys.

Thanks for coming and getting involved. Your involvement helps everyone and you never know when one of your posts can save a life.

Peace, Rainbows, Love, Healing & Hope
Jeff
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Stick around, It will get better....

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#454068 - 11/16/13 09:47 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 192
Lapchinj everyone one here I agree is strong just some thing about your story impressed upon me. I look at this as motivation "I will never be fixed I will never be whole I will never be okay I will never give up" the only option for me is to fight. No matter how bad it gets and it's going to get much worse for me. Ask me tomorrow and I might feel different but the more I think this was the more progress I will make. Hope this helps some.

James

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#454076 - 11/16/13 10:26 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 06/07/11
Posts: 1197
Loc: New York
Hey James,

I hope I've helped in some way that's all I can offer and it's what we're all here for - one another smile.

Thanks for the kind words.

Peace, Rainbows, Love, Healing & Hope
<3 XOXO
Jeff
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#454078 - 11/16/13 10:48 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 05/26/11
Posts: 89
Loc: west Chester, Pa
I've never been able to put anything in writing, just been afraid to see it I think. perp was on my paper route. Really sucked me in with grooming. Nice tips, sodas,always talked to me about what a great job I did.
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it is and has been quite a trip thru life, as last I feel that I am in a better place, it takes work and in my case a wife the was and is forgiveing and helpful. At last a relationship has gone right, messed up three.

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#454112 - 11/17/13 08:56 AM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 192
It all helps. Maybe one day I will tell my wife. It's a big risk I will have to take

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#464632 - 04/26/14 11:54 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
Mike Boyd Offline


Registered: 04/23/14
Posts: 5
Loc: Florida
My abusers were my mother & doctor:

Mother: Verbally & she would inspect my penis and make me have an orgasm

Doctor: When he examined me, he thoroughly examined my genital until I had an orgasm

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#464644 - 04/27/14 12:34 PM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 02/05/13
Posts: 219
Loc: Western Europe
My brother, i was 11-12 and he was 3 years older
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Trust me, you are worth it to love yourself!

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#464738 - 04/29/14 12:19 AM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 02/23/10
Posts: 124
Loc: Michigan
9 years old: Neighbor boy who I believe was 13.

10-11: Another neighbor boy joined in. He was my age, but much bigger than I.

11-14: Mother's husband.

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#464739 - 04/29/14 12:41 AM Re: who was your abuser? may trigger. [Re: jas4159]
Minute2Minute Offline
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Registered: 01/11/08
Posts: 70
Loc: MB, Canada
My only real childhood memories are of abuse.
Grandmother: Constant verbal; daily beatings/whippings (she loved belts and electrical cords) when her rage was bad, weekly if it was good - continued to age 9
Half brother: 8 years older; six years of sexual abuse starting at age 5
Myself: age 13 to age 44 and counting

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