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#453802 - 11/15/13 03:05 PM hello
johndoe Offline

Registered: 11/15/13
Posts: 11
Loc: california
Hello. I am 41 and have never really dealt with some incidents from my past. I have recently began to remember things I had forgotten. I think this has affected me in many more ways than I ever knew. Thank you for having me - hopefully I can find a way to start getting past it here.

#453813 - 11/15/13 03:55 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
FormerTexan Offline
Site Administrator
Registered: 09/12/04
Posts: 11138
Loc: Denver, CO
Welcome to MS, john.
List of things ain't nobody got time for:

1. That

If I could meet myself as a boy...

#453814 - 11/15/13 04:01 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
JayBro Offline

Registered: 11/13/12
Posts: 270
Loc: Germany
Welcome to the beginning of your personal journey of recovery and self-exploration!
,,Nun ging es immerzu, weit, weit bis an der Welt Ende."

#453815 - 11/15/13 04:15 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3429
Loc: O Kanada

it is good that you are dealing with these recent memories,
you are in the right place.

buckle your seatbelts.
the road is rough ahead.
please drive carefully.


#453834 - 11/15/13 07:07 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
johndoe Offline

Registered: 11/15/13
Posts: 11
Loc: california
thank you all for the warm welcome

#453864 - 11/15/13 08:21 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
nomorevic Offline

Registered: 11/19/12
Posts: 41
Loc: North Carolina
Welcome to Male Survivor John.

This should be a great place to start and hopefully complete your healing journey. Take your time and go at your own pace.

Take care,

#453871 - 11/15/13 08:44 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
Kylie Offline

Registered: 11/15/13
Posts: 25
Hi Johndoe, I'm new here too. I'm a partner, trying to be supportive & trying for both of us to be okay. I dont know how to post my introduction or anything else, can someone advise me please?

#453873 - 11/15/13 09:21 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
Cthulhu Offline

Registered: 06/13/13
Posts: 139
Loc: Cascadia
hey johndoe,

Sorry you life events led you here, but have hope. This community does have a lot to offer. It scared the hell out of me at first, but I have come to depend on it. I hope it can help you as it has helped me.

These self explorations can be painful. Give yourself the compassion you deserve and try not to get discouraged if working on these issues brings on non-linear progress. It will have its ups and downs, but healing is possible.

I wish you the best of luck on your recovery.

Feel free to message me if you ever want someone to talk to smile


Edited by Cthulhu (01/03/14 08:44 PM)
“what matters most is how well you walk through the fire”
-Charles Bukowski

some context

#453892 - 11/15/13 10:31 PM Re: hello [Re: johndoe]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1585
Loc: New England
Welcome johndoe!

You deserve all the healing available, in order to have the best life possible. Don't settle for less.

Can't be bothered with sorrow
And I can't be bothered with hate, no, no
I'm using up the time but feeling fine every day
That's why I'm telling you
I just want to celebrate another day of livin'
Rare Earth


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