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#452902 - 11/08/13 11:39 AM What was the age difference?
jas4159 Offline


Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 302
What was the age difference between you and your abuser.

when i was 8-12 my abuser was 8 years older than me.
from the ages of 12 to eighteen my primary abusers were 24 years older. others were in there twenties when i was in my teens.
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#452916 - 11/08/13 12:30 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 45
I was 4, he was 24 up throughout my entire childhood.

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#452918 - 11/08/13 12:35 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
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Registered: 02/26/05
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I was 5 to 7; he was in his mid-50s.

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#452919 - 11/08/13 12:43 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Still Offline
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Registered: 02/16/07
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Loc: FEMA Region 1
4-year dif for three of the older boys. The least active and least participating one was only about 1-year.
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#452942 - 11/08/13 02:53 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
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Loc: somewhere in Africa
1. step-dad - 32 years

2. peers & older boys - 0-8 years

3. stranger - 15? years
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#452987 - 11/08/13 11:22 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
ThisMan Offline
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Registered: 01/22/13
Posts: 769
Loc: upper south
youth- approx 7
teen- 15 years older
adult- 15 years older
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#452994 - 11/08/13 11:41 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
don64 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/13
Posts: 965
Loc: St. Croix, USVI
mother-20 years older
father-19 years older
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#452997 - 11/08/13 11:46 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
SoccerStar Offline
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Registered: 10/15/12
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Loc: New York
I was 8, he was 66.
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#453025 - 11/09/13 08:05 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Suwanee Offline
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Registered: 10/30/12
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Loc: Southeast USA
I had just turned 13, he was 19.

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#453042 - 11/09/13 10:38 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Moreorless Offline


Registered: 10/07/13
Posts: 23
Loc: Pittsburgh
Mom and Dad - approximately 30 years older than me.
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