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#452625 - 11/06/13 12:50 AM Song trigger
Frustrated Offline


Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 192
A Great Big World- Say Something

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#452763 - 11/07/13 11:13 AM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
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Registered: 08/22/13
Posts: 158
Loc: Minnesota
Tainted Love always creeps me right out.
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#452770 - 11/07/13 12:28 PM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
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Registered: 09/16/13
Posts: 283
Loc: Surrey, United Kingdom
Marvin Gaye "Flyin high (in the friendly sky)"
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#452794 - 11/07/13 06:10 PM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
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"Maggie May" by Rod Stewart.

The whole song is from the point of a view of a teenage boy who has just realized that he's been the victim of CSA from an older woman. Baffles me that people "like" this song; makes me want to curl up into a ball.

Cant
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#452796 - 11/07/13 06:54 PM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
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Registered: 06/13/13
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Loc: Cascadia
Wings Of A Butterfly - HIM

F*ck does that song bring back some memories I wish I didn't have.
Thematically it is somewhat problematic but I think most of my issues have to do with personal symbolism attached to the song.
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#452904 - 11/08/13 11:43 AM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
huon Offline


Registered: 09/17/13
Posts: 6
I don't know if this is what you are looking for, but I've found myself identifying with this song lately.



"Torn" by Natalie Imbruglia

"Nothing's fine, I'm torn

I'm all out of faith
This is how I feel
I'm cold and I am shamed
Lying naked on the floor

Illusion never changed
Into something real
I'm wide awake and I can see
The perfect sky is torn
You're a little late, I'm already torn"


Edited by huon (08/04/14 09:34 AM)

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#452933 - 11/08/13 02:08 PM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
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Posts: 192
There are a lot of songs out there that reflect child abuse. I get lost in a lot of them.

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#453453 - 11/13/13 12:05 AM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
Jacob S Offline
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Loc: where the shadows lie
Originally Posted By: Frustrated
There are a lot of songs out there that reflect child abuse. I get lost in a lot of them.


This is true for me too. Kate Bush's song "The Infant Kiss" was a big trigger for me when I first heard it years ago, mostly because I wasn't at all expecting to have to think about it and wasn't prepared. A grown woman thinking a little boy can make her lose control is incredibly triggering to me. I believe Kate Bush when she explains that she's just telling a story and not actually condoning the perspective, but I still hate that song.
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#453454 - 11/13/13 12:26 AM Re: Song trigger [Re: Frustrated]
DavoSwim Offline
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Registered: 02/06/13
Posts: 336
Loc: Iowa, USA
Songs that are triggering for me are "Everybody Hurts" by REM, and "Elvira" by the Oak Ridge Boys. The former because it's able to touch my heart like no other song can, and the latter because it was a hit on the day I was once abused.

On the other hand, a couple of songs that I find healing are "Thunder Road" by Bruce Springsteen, and "Leaving on a Jet Plane" by John Denver/Peter, Paul and Mary.
It's because it symbolizes me speaking to my 11 year old self, and coincidentally, it was popular around the time i was abused by my parish priest.

Dave

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