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#452902 - 11/08/13 11:39 AM What was the age difference?
jas4159 Offline

Registered: 06/16/11
Posts: 302
What was the age difference between you and your abuser.

when i was 8-12 my abuser was 8 years older than me.
from the ages of 12 to eighteen my primary abusers were 24 years older. others were in there twenties when i was in my teens.


#452916 - 11/08/13 12:30 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Rich918 Offline

Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 45
I was 4, he was 24 up throughout my entire childhood.

#452918 - 11/08/13 12:35 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
cant_remember Offline

Registered: 02/26/05
Posts: 1046
I was 5 to 7; he was in his mid-50s.

Recovery is possible. Hang in there, brothers.

#452919 - 11/08/13 12:43 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Still Offline

Registered: 02/16/07
Posts: 6806
Loc: FEMA Region 1
4-year dif for three of the older boys. The least active and least participating one was only about 1-year.
Enablers crackle and smoke in Hell right along side the perps!

#452942 - 11/08/13 02:53 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3676
Loc: somewhere in Africa
1. step-dad - 32 years

2. peers & older boys - 0-8 years

3. stranger - 15? years
"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity." - Paulo Coelho

#452987 - 11/08/13 11:22 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
ThisMan Offline

Registered: 01/22/13
Posts: 769
Loc: upper south
youth- approx 7
teen- 15 years older
adult- 15 years older
For now we see through a glass, darkly.

#452994 - 11/08/13 11:41 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
don64 Offline

Registered: 10/09/13
Posts: 902
Loc: St. Croix, USVI
mother-20 years older
father-19 years older
Divine Law is not judgment or denial of self truths. Divine Law is honoring harmony that comes from a peaceful mind, an open heart, a true tongue, a light step, a forgiving nature, and a love of all living creatures. Jamie Sams & David Carson, Medicine Cards

#452997 - 11/08/13 11:46 PM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
SoccerStar Offline

Registered: 10/15/12
Posts: 920
Loc: New York
I was 8, he was 66.
My story

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#453025 - 11/09/13 08:05 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Suwanee Offline

Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 869
Loc: Southeast USA
I had just turned 13, he was 19.

I ask you to judge me by the enemies I have made. --FDR

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The ocean's Trident submarines
Lemons, limes and tangerines
I remember this… R.E.M. 1988

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#453042 - 11/09/13 10:38 AM Re: What was the age difference? [Re: jas4159]
Moreorless Offline

Registered: 10/07/13
Posts: 23
Loc: Pittsburgh
Mom and Dad - approximately 30 years older than me.
"There is a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in." - Leonard Cohen

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