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#451885 - 10/30/13 06:08 PM It's OK To Be Depressed
concerned_husky Offline
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Registered: 08/29/12
Posts: 545
Long story short: I posted on this topic on the forums yesterday; got a lot of much-needed support, and I proceeded to give birth to this ridiculous pseudo-poem.

***Some foul language***

There’s this nag, you see, in me, and in others,
With this ridiculous smile always plastered on his face;
My feelings, my thoughts – he smears, and he smothers…
*Sigh*…he’s everywhere, he’s all over the damn place!

“Look here,” he screams, “you don’t have it all that bad!
What a loser you are! You can’t function, you little bitch!
Why are you so miserable? Why are you so sad?
Drama-queen you are…a Prima Donna, little wretch!”

But then I think, “Well, hold on, I’ve got A, B and C…
And uh…D, E and F…hell, the list just keeps growing!
Then I write it all out…and well, it didn’t end at Z.
I guess, the weed in my garden, needs a little mowing.

So now, I tell myself: “Look, you’ve got a lot on your mind.
It’s OK to feel bad. It’s OK to be depressed.
Take a deep breath, and don’t forget to unwind;
And fuck all the others who are less than impressed.”


Edited by concerned_husky (10/30/13 06:11 PM)
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The ratio of good to bad people in this world will always be tipped in favor of the latter. Always. But that ratio in your own social circle, you can control. And there, and only there, can the balance be favorably tipped, so that those who love you far outnumber those who don't.

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#451922 - 10/30/13 08:11 PM Re: It's OK To Be Depressed [Re: concerned_husky]
don64 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/13
Posts: 358
Loc: St. Croix, USVI
Hi Husky,

I have read that love and compassion are more effective for "weeding" than aggression. Seems to be true for me. Depression has changed for me to sadness. I don't know if I used to believe that the sadness would destroy me or not. But it does not. The sadness is about something I do not have and/or did not have. It is important information. It tells me what I care about and provides me with clues about what kinds of things I need to learn in order to move in that direction. It is the process of moving out of negative thinking into positive thinking. Challenging but doable.

Love and good will Husky.

Don

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#451974 - 10/30/13 10:37 PM Re: It's OK To Be Depressed [Re: concerned_husky]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3199
Loc: back in the USA
Originally Posted By: concerned_husky
So now, I tell myself: “Look, you’ve got a lot on your mind.
It’s OK to feel bad. It’s OK to be depressed.
Take a deep breath, and don’t forget to unwind;
And fuck all the others who are less than impressed.”


wink i second that!

LEE
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We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9

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#452047 - 10/31/13 12:21 PM Re: It's OK To Be Depressed [Re: concerned_husky]
Cthulhu Offline
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Registered: 06/13/13
Posts: 125
Loc: Cascadia
Yay for pseudo-poems wink

I think this poem is exactly right. The only useful thing my psyc did was recommend a bookto me. Basically its idea of depression, determined by three doctors, was your idea right there(go you). It took me a while to digest that idea, but when I did I really identified with it.

I would feel bad, the look at my job, income, apparent social circle. Then call myself an idiot and beat myself down. Now I just try to tell let me brain be sad when it needs to and tell it to shut-up if it starts trying to beat me down. "Fuck you brain! A, B, & C are serious issues most people don't have to deal with! It will take time!"
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A calf is easy to brand"
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#452095 - 10/31/13 09:35 PM Re: It's OK To Be Depressed [Re: concerned_husky]
SayItRight Offline
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Registered: 10/06/13
Posts: 63
CH:
This is awesome. I love the last line. Thanks for posting it.
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