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#451735 - 10/29/13 06:41 PM New here
Frustrated Offline

Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 195
I'm new here and i have so many questions
I will never be safe I will never be sain I will always be weird inside I will always be lame

#451736 - 10/29/13 06:46 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
Zero Offline

Registered: 09/24/13
Posts: 48
Loc: Tennessee
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#451737 - 10/29/13 06:50 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
gettingstronger Offline

Registered: 09/24/13
Posts: 282
Loc: Virginia
Hi Frustrated,

Welcome. I'm new here as well (about 8 weeks or so.) The amount of healing I've experienced just by reading the discussion threads and talking with other guys via the chat room has been astounding.

You've come to the right place. Hang in there and feel free to read, post or chat as you wish.
If you have to rebuild yourself from the ground up, you get to do it the right way this time. And YOU'RE the builder.

#451740 - 10/29/13 07:05 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 5707
Loc: O Kanada
welcome to

i also welcome you to ask your questions as you feel comfortable.

sometimes you will get answers.

sometimes you will even get answers that help you.

please be tolerant of other's opinions as offered.

be careful and prepared.

respect others, even if you don't feel respected.

avoid confrontational disagreements.

be honest with yourself.

accept advice with discretion and dignity.

protect yourself at all times.


#451746 - 10/29/13 07:54 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
Obi Offline

Registered: 12/28/09
Posts: 1578
Loc: kansas
welcome to ms.
live another day. climb a little higher.

my story

my vlog

#451753 - 10/29/13 08:22 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
Frustrated Offline

Registered: 10/28/13
Posts: 195
Where do you start when you have not found the beginning it's so overwhelming I can't wrap my head around it
I will never be safe I will never be sain I will always be weird inside I will always be lame

#451759 - 10/29/13 08:50 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
nomorevic Offline

Registered: 11/19/12
Posts: 41
Loc: North Carolina

Welcome to Male Survivor. You can post specific questions or just vent, it doesn't matter. There are some really insightful men on this site and Iḿ hopeful you will get much needed support.

Best to you.

#451824 - 10/30/13 09:05 AM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
bluesky Offline

Registered: 08/04/13
Posts: 355
Hi and welcome.

You ask a very good question where do I begin my journey and man it is a journey with many satiation but as all beginnings just beginning is all that maters. You can look at the different threads
and post there or start you own all that counts is you are trying to help your self give your self the space and compassion youneed on and off line you deserve it.
With an open heart welcome.

Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."
Frank Herbert

#451968 - 10/30/13 10:25 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
traveler Offline

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3786
Loc: somewhere in Africa
Originally Posted By: Frustrated
Where do you start when you have not found the beginning it's so overwhelming I can't wrap my head around it

just like putting together a puzzle - start anywhere and put together the pieces as they come to you. there is really no right or wrong way to begin. once you get into it - stuff arises and demands your attention. you probly won't have to wonder what to tackle next. it is not like you have to deal with things in chronological order - or in ascending or descending seriousness - just jump in and get started.

We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9

#451986 - 10/30/13 11:24 PM Re: New here [Re: Frustrated]
pittsburgh Offline

Registered: 05/26/11
Posts: 91
Loc: west Chester, Pa
Welcome: The fact that you are hear shows that you have already start on a journey to recovery, starting to deal with what has happened in you life. I you can I suggest working with a therapist who has experience in working with male survivors. I wish you the best. There are a lot of good men on this site who can give you great insight.
it is and has been quite a trip thru life, as last I feel that I am in a better place, it takes work and in my case a wife the was and is forgiveing and helpful. At last a relationship has gone right, messed up three.

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