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#451017 - 10/22/13 09:08 PM Re: Pre-WOR nightmare [Re: newground]
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Hi Matt. I'm so glad to hear your WOR went so well. I don't blame you for being nervous about it going in. I know I would have been. The nightmare about the perp seems to make sense to me. In a way, you were going there to confront him, or at least the memory of him so, in a sense, he was going to be there. I think that dream was probably your subconscious mind's way of dealing with that reality. Sounds like in the end, you went, you faced that reality, and you came out on top. Good for you. Take care. Peace,

Ken

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#451115 - 10/23/13 07:54 PM Re: Pre-WOR nightmare [Re: mattheal]
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funny thing - i was panicking the night before going to WoR too - but because i was afraid that someone i knew would be there and that i would be recognized. not nightmares - because i didn't sleep enough to get to that level.

later i realized - if there was someone i knew there - they would be a fellow-survivor - and a potential source of support and understanding rather than shame and embarrassment. not a bad thing at all.

our minds can play funny tricks on us - and we often react in the guise of the injured and irrational children rather than as logical men.

LEE
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"Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself... And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and with eternity." - Paulo Coelho


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