I think society is more tolerant of gay female sexuality, than any other. After all, alot of straight men think 2 chicks going at it is "HOT". If the situation were that of a gay male 19 year old and a 14 year old boy, I doubt they would refer to them as "boyfriends". They'd label him a predator.
"I get up, and nothing gets me down.
You got it tough. I've seen the toughest around.
And I know, baby, just how you feel.
You've got to roll with the punches to get to what's real"Van Halen