I think society is more tolerant of gay female sexuality, than any other. After all, alot of straight men think 2 chicks going at it is "HOT". If the situation were that of a gay male 19 year old and a 14 year old boy, I doubt they would refer to them as "boyfriends". They'd label him a predator.
"And God only knows
God makes his plan
The information's unavailable to the mortal man
We're workin' our jobs
Collect our pay
Believe were gliding down the highway
When if fact we're slip slidin' away"Paul Simon