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#449079 - 10/03/13 09:15 PM It's bullshit.
Tyler845 Offline


Registered: 11/04/10
Posts: 276
Loc: U.S.A.
i'm fuckin pissed. it's bullshit i have to be here. it's bullshit i had to function with that shit goin on. it's bullshit i had to figure a way out myself. It's bullshit my mom wasn't strong or resourceful enough to help. It's bullshit, as good looking as i am, I don't have a girlfriend. It's bullshit I have to struggle where i should be thriving.
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#449083 - 10/03/13 10:00 PM Re: It's bullshit. [Re: Tyler845]
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Registered: 09/01/09
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True it's bullshit, but just because there is bullshit does not meant that there isn't a bull. That's what you gotta focus on destroying. Don't take it personally, the fact that this happened to many of us was something beyond our control.
There is nothing i can say to you that will validate what happened because simply there is no validation.
You will have a girlfriend, and one who will appreciate you for both inside and the outside.
Anger is a normal emotion, rage and other volcanic emotions will come forth, so don't despair, it is bullshit, but that doesn't mean it is all there is in life.
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#449102 - 10/03/13 11:46 PM Re: It's bullshit. [Re: Tyler845]
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Originally Posted By: Tyler845
i'm fuckin pissed. it's bullshit i have to be here. it's bullshit i had to function with that shit goin on. it's bullshit i had to figure a way out myself. It's bullshit my mom wasn't strong or resourceful enough to help. It's bullshit, as good looking as i am, I don't have a girlfriend. It's bullshit I have to struggle where i should be thriving.


You never asked for this shit!!!! It IS all bullshit!

Be pissed!

Rage! Explode! You deserve to let lose your rage any way you need!
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#449121 - 10/04/13 03:34 AM Re: It's bullshit. [Re: Tyler845]
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Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1600
Loc: New England
Originally Posted By: Tyler845
i'm fuckin pissed. ....It's bullshit I have to struggle where i should be thriving.
Hey Tyler,

You are so right to be angry. Many of us turned that anger inward toward ourselves and did much damage to ourselves. Better to shout it from the rooftops.

But when all is said and done, life just isn't fair to alot of people, in lots of different ways. Our burden is heavy, but so is that of a young man returning from Afganastan with no legs. So is that of a young mother with leukemia. So is that of a child in Africa left orphaned by AIDS, starving and living in the street.

Our job is to do the best we can with what life has given us, and appreciate the good things we do have. You mentioned you are a good looking guy? Hey, alot of us never had that going for us. Do what you have to to blow off steam, then get to work again on making yourself a better, healthier man. I'm predicting a day when the women will line up to drag you into their bedrooms.

Jude
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Every night I have the strangest dreams
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Left here on my own or so it seems
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#449127 - 10/04/13 05:37 AM Re: It's bullshit. [Re: Tyler845]
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Registered: 07/03/13
Posts: 256
Loc: Southeast US
Tyler,

You are SO right. It's bullshit! Rage is good, get it all out, BUT be sure you don't turn the rage on yourself. That's no good.
You do deserve some good things in life, and they will come. You deserve to, not only survive, but thrive. If even I can have two different girl friends and a wife, (not at the same time) then there's definitely hope for you. Goods looks I don't have. Hang in there, it DOES get better.

CJ
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#449300 - 10/05/13 08:53 PM Re: It's bullshit. [Re: Bluedogone]
Tyler845 Offline


Registered: 11/04/10
Posts: 276
Loc: U.S.A.
Thanks Guys.

I really appreciate the time it took to respond to my post, and the care it took as well.

I'm seeing better now. I don't know if it was an isolated incident of a wtf moment, or just a simmering response to stalls personally in certain areas. After a day of working out,i feel much more capable. More Clear. I really appreciate every word typed from my responses.

Heal Well. (+)

Jimmy
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