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#448706 - 09/29/13 05:45 PM A belated hello
bluesky Offline
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Registered: 08/04/13
Posts: 136
Hi I joined MS in august I wanted to do the intro but could not bring my self to. Now I feel is the right time it has been a very bumpy ride the last 5 months just started to deal with 37 years of silence, fear, shame and confusion. I have built a trust with some of the guys on the site and feel very good about this place . Even going to T twice a week for the last 5 months which has been very good does not take the of place this site smile.
Thanks to all that have helped me. grin
I dont think I have to tell you about the abuse but about me.
In spite of years of abuse at the hand of multiple perps I have accomplished much.I am a husband and a father of beautiful children. I taught children for 10 years, and have worked as a herbalist and acupuncturist for about 16 years. There is alot more but this is an intro wink.
Thanks
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Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."
Frank Herbert

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#448747 - 09/30/13 03:06 AM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3584
Loc: O Kanada
and a belated welcome to you, bluesky.

sounds like you are doing well,
for the most part.

I, too, am husband and father and that really gives incentive to get it right.
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#448831 - 09/30/13 09:03 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
traveler Offline
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Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3515
Loc: somewhere in Africa
hey, bluesky,

i've seen you around.
in case i didn't already say it - welcome!
good to have you contributing.

lee
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As my life goes on I believe somehow something's changed
Something deep inside...
I've been searchin so long to find an answer
Now I know my life has meaning
Now I see myself as I am, feeling very free...
When my tears have come to an end I will understand
What I left behind: a part of me. Chicago


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#448902 - 10/01/13 03:03 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1600
Loc: New England
Hey Bluesky,

One step at a time, and you will reach your goal. Don't let anything stop you.

Jude
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Seems I've got to have a change of scene
Every night I have the strangest dreams
Imprisoned by the way it could have been
Left here on my own or so it seems
I've got to leave before I start to scream
Joe Cocker

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#448938 - 10/01/13 09:28 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
Bill61 Offline


Registered: 09/29/13
Posts: 41
Loc: Illinois
Is a therapist better to talk to than a psychiatrist? I never told my psychiatrist about the abuse until this year. The person that help me pull it out was Dr Darren Weissman and his staff.
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Small Stones
"Those who remove mountains begin by carrying away small stones"

"I am in charge of how I fell and I choose HAPPINESS" from The Law of Attraction.

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#448945 - 10/01/13 10:57 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
bluesky Offline
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Registered: 08/04/13
Posts: 136
Thanks to all smile.
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Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."
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#448946 - 10/01/13 11:03 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: Bill61]
bluesky Offline
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Registered: 08/04/13
Posts: 136
Hey Bill61
I guess it depends on what works for you. For me med are something that I am trying not to take and talking to some one and learning how my mind works or does not is a better option for me. Try it it may help if not you can drop it just find some one that has experience with trauma work and CSA.
Hope we all kind what works for us. smile
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Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."
Frank Herbert

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#449198 - 10/04/13 06:39 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
Adam A Gedman Offline


Registered: 08/12/13
Posts: 188
Loc: Canada
Hey bluesky,

We arrived here about the same time
Sharing ourselves through a rhyme
Poetic conversation ensued
A friend I had met, I assumed
Your intro is uniquely you


Not my best work I'll admit, but a warm welcome to the MS forums
At the time that was right for you.
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Presence is the key, for all we have is now.
All we ever have is right now.

Formerly Adam A Gedman (AKA - A damAGed man)

But you can call me Kevin

Toronto Mini WoR - May 2014

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#449293 - 10/05/13 07:37 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
bluesky Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 08/04/13
Posts: 136
(((((Adam A Gedman)))))
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Where the fear has gone there will be nothing.
Only I will remain."
Frank Herbert

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#449621 - 10/08/13 11:55 PM Re: A belated hello [Re: bluesky]
Cthulhu Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 06/13/13
Posts: 140
Loc: Cascadia
Nice to learn a bit more about you Bluesky. I have really benefited from your being on the site and I am sure others you have interacted with have as well. Thank you for being on here and it makes me glad to read your positive words. I think you have done very well and deserve to feel proud laugh

With Love,



VoteCthulhu
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“what matters most is how well you walk through the fire”
-Charles Bukowski

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