MS will be sending you a Ferrari ASAP.
Nah, I live near dirt roads.....I would feel bad for the car!
This all hurts like hell and I don't get it. I don't get why its happening, but its like the alienation found in childhood all over again.
Don't ever discount the fact that people would have come into and gone out of your life even if you had never been abused. I've had people/friends/family come and go for no apparent reason (fbook and otherwise)....sometimes for apparent reasons....and I've never been abused. I've had people I've known for decades
that won't talk to me because we don't agree on gun rights issues. It's stupid.....but it is what it is.
I was very disturbed at how people saw H when he did in-patient mental health. I was glad he was there but the same people who made a small effort to visit him in the hospital NEVER went the 9 days he was is psyche. I was the only one and I don't see what the big deal was....he needed it.
Maybe this has **triggers** maybe not....to be honest I'm not sure so read carefully.....in a nutshell:
I know H was very disturbed about explaining to me his physical reactions to the abuse but what he didn't understand then, and I hope many of you know, is that the parts of the nervous system that handle those things are not the same nerves we use to type these posts on our keyboards. I wrote up a post a while back about this but I'm not sure I ever posted it.
These physical reactions are handled mostly by the same nervous system areas that handle things like digestion, hormone releases, and breathing. These are not reactions that men or women EVER have much, if any, control over.
I think that information was one thing that he was very concerned about my reaction to and how I would see him. That was only because he didn't understand his physical reactions to the abuse though.