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#448107 - 09/24/13 04:49 PM boundary
Sterling Offline


Registered: 10/25/08
Posts: 284
Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba,Canada
Hi, I just wanted to tell you guys how thankful i am to be here.
I do apologize if my posts are heavy; difficult to support.

I am wondering how can i love myself, say even family (but not,); i give compliments that are geniune,friendly , i just love people.
I started hanging out w/ a guy i met at a mood disorders group.
Awesome guy. And a guy who i hang out w/ now (an old friend
from lonnnggggggggg time ago ) , a different friend ..he is also a wonderful guy. How do i get too be smart, not abuse their safety in themselves and so they trust themselves.

My first friend i mentioned .he accepts me even if i were gay
but the voices . Oh ,that is what my therapist said " draw the
line of where my boundry is and the other person.
I have to be careful of what io share.
I told this guy i watch gay porn. So he is absolutley sure
that i am gay.
I am trying to get everyone in my life ..actally i want to introduce the two guys to each other. And then later my third buddy.
Am I an idiot? .. I always liked helping people .maybe I need a dad... yea this never stops. So even if see someone would
be better if knew they would love themselves more..i am good
maybe i should respect them individually and should they want any advice they can ask me but dont act like i want more...
maybe i am selfish...

hey a special thanks to Didi and Pufferfish for the resources
on the professionals who help recover lazy-eyes.
It had been incredible !!! The hard-work pays off!

Thanks for all readng my posts....strenuous content frown smile

Goran

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#448111 - 09/24/13 05:53 PM Re: boundary [Re: Sterling]
peroperic2009 Offline
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Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3617
Loc: South-East Europe
Hi Goran,
it is sooo good to see you man wink
I'm happy to hear that you are making friendships; and it is nice that you are trying to introduce your friends to each other.
Hugs!!!!

Pero
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#448251 - 09/25/13 11:08 PM Re: boundary [Re: peroperic2009]
Sterling Offline


Registered: 10/25/08
Posts: 284
Loc: Winnipeg, Manitoba,Canada
Yeaaaaa nice to see you 2 buddy!
Yeah , these guys are really awesome.
It's just well two guys like me ; well three actually. It's
just they like not to think about having therapy and i am
not their dad. frown . It is a little nerve - racking.
I am scared one friend today (Ed) - i asked him if he would
like to b introduced to another friend ( Jon) . He doesnt
want to. These guys both like to party! I dont drink so...
it's Jon's b-day in a couple of weeks; i thought it would b
cool!
Oh well!
And then my buddy Tyler ,,,sometimes i feel like he channels
his daddy issues to me frown ; but i like to get into
listening/ supporting y'know ? . . ;but he doesnt want to
open up. He has walls all over the place. It's so uncomfortable ! He wants a perfect life but i cant let
him take the good out of me.
Ijust go to movies w/ him. Anyway i love you guys.
I hope you guys dont get worried. I need a vacccccaaash ahn!!
love and hug back to you Pero.

Goran

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