Have you considered that rather than no, you could say I would prefer.
Would you my if we did this (sucked dick instead of fuck for example or vice versa).
When I was 16 and had my first male to female fuck, It started by my licking her to orgasm, She offered to return the favor and I suggested I did not feel comfortable with that. (I had really only suck two peoples dick. One my brother and the other, my mother's choice of a caretaker. Maybe a dozen times
may be more. I think it is learning to suggest the alternative.
It's not like she believed I was virgin in the hetero-sexual sense. She thought I lied tp her and her sister. I couldn't know that sucking dick was uncomfortable, and licking a girl to orgasm if I were virgin. But without disclosing I Just indicated I would rather fuck (make love, put it in (whatever).
Any way . So my advice is they don't have to believe you, Just figure out how to say I would prefer ...
We all have different stories and we all are just the same
Edited by genedebs (09/19/13 08:34 PM)
Edit Reason: I read earlier posts