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#446496 - 09/05/13 11:14 AM Hello from Brazil
Fabio_SP Offline


Registered: 06/16/13
Posts: 16
I'm from Brazil, São Paulo, I'd like to meet with people from Brazil for a project(Brazil support group in São Paulo), please go to "Classifieds" for more details.
I know there are many brazilians here, so let's keep in touch, send a private message if you want(I'll check it everyday).I can't let my e-mail here, so you have to send me a private message.
Since almost anybody checks the Classifieds section I decided to make this post.
Let's join forces.I'm doing my best sending e-mails everywhere, but I'm not being successful.
Fabio


Edited by Fabio_SP (09/14/13 08:10 AM)
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Brazil support group in São Paulo

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=438469#Post438469

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#446536 - 09/06/13 12:01 AM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Fabio_SP]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1513
Loc: New England
Bem-vindo Fabio,

Espero que seus planos em São Paulo são bem sucedidos. Tenho certeza de que há muitos homens no Brasil que serão beneficiados com seus esforços. Por favor, mantenha-nos informados de seu progresso.

Jude
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To get another shrink.
I sit and tell him about my weekend,
But he never betrays what he thinks.
Can you see the real me, doctor?.
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#446645 - 09/07/13 08:25 PM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Fabio_SP]
Jay1946 Offline


Registered: 08/08/13
Posts: 82
Loc: Miami, Florida, USA
Fabio:

I am not from Brazil but I was born in Latin America. My perception is that male CSA is as prevalent in Latin America as in the US, and maybe even more so. But it is a taboo subject. No one talks about it, which makes it even more difficult and painful for those victims.
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#447034 - 09/12/13 09:35 PM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Fabio_SP]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3329
Loc: O Kanada
Bem-vindo Fabio,

welcome to www.malesurvivor.org
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#447099 - 09/13/13 10:11 AM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Jude]
Fabio_SP Offline


Registered: 06/16/13
Posts: 16
Olá Jude, Como já havia dito 20% dos sobreviventes são do Brasil(no fórum), porém o que me impressiona é o fato da pouca reação/resposta do meu post nessa comunidade(malesurvivor.org). Poís vejo todos os dias se há mensagens p/ mim, no entanto não há.
A falta de reply me deixa muito frustrado, tenho convicção que há muitos brasileiros necessitando de um grupo de apoio(lógico, fora o tratamento de um profissional).
Mandei um e-mail para o Dr. Howard Fradkin no dia 15 de agosto e recebi como resposta que um dos facilitadores, Bill Burmeste iria me mandar detalhes na próxima semana como iniciar um grupo de apoio, porém até agora não recebi o e-mail com os detalhes.Também me foi dito que (Dr. Howard Fradkin) que meu e-mail seria repassado p/ o Chris Andersen(Diretor Executivo), todavia ainda não recebi o e-mail do mesmo.
No dia 16 de agosto, recebi um e-mail do Paul Linden com dois contatos da America do Sul, professores de aikido(não sei qual é a associação do aikido com Grupo de apoio à vítima de violência sexual) mandei e-mail p/ os dois e até o momento não recebi resposta.
Como você pode perceber não estou sendo bem sucedido nessa jornada.Não sendo profissional na área e sem contatos fica difícil iniciar algo tão audacioso.
Estou pensando em mandar um e-mail p/ um deputado(do Rio de Janeiro, infelizmente não de São Paulo) e espero conseguir algum êxito em pelo menos alguma coisa.Também estou pensando em mandar novamente um e-mail p/ Dr. Howard Fradkin lhe informando que até o momento não recebi os detalhes como iniciar esse grupo de apoio.

Fabio
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http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=438469#Post438469

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#447106 - 09/13/13 10:35 AM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Jay1946]
Fabio_SP Offline


Registered: 06/16/13
Posts: 16
Hi jay, you absolutely right, here in Brazil is still a taboo, I have never met so far somebody that is male CSA or ASA, believe me, I tried to find somebody(that is male adult) to keep in touch with me (somebody that suffered similar issues as mine), but I couldn't find it.
I believe they are afraid and ashamed of it, since no male reports to police about this kind of crime.And I also believe that in the US are easier to approach about it than in Brazil, since they have support group/community to help each other.
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#447109 - 09/13/13 10:42 AM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: victor-victim]
Fabio_SP Offline


Registered: 06/16/13
Posts: 16
Olá Victor. Obrigado pelas boas-vinda.
Espero que você também possa me ajudar nessa jornada, o mínimo que você possa fazer como apenas divugando esse post(e o post do Classifieds), já estou agradecido.
Espero que mais brasileiros vejam esse post e possam me ajudar.

Fabio
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Brazil support group in São Paulo

http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=438469#Post438469

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#447120 - 09/13/13 01:44 PM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Fabio_SP]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3329
Loc: O Kanada
Obrigado.
Espero que você obtenha o que deseja.
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#447145 - 09/13/13 10:21 PM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Fabio_SP]
Jay1946 Offline


Registered: 08/08/13
Posts: 82
Loc: Miami, Florida, USA
Fabio:

Even though I don't speak Portuguese, I speak Spanish, so I was able to get the notion of what you wrote in your posts.

Keep up your very considerable efforts. I am sure you will be successful sooner or later. In the meantime, I hope you continue to draw support and encouragement from this board.

Best:
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#447223 - 09/14/13 07:18 PM Re: Hello from Brazil [Re: Fabio_SP]
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Registered: 11/09/12
Posts: 285
Loc: MO
Welcome Fabio.

Though I don't speak Portuguese, you do speak English. We are all just the same,

We are here to support you and to share our recovery, and our trials, but mostly our recovery.

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