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#446809 - 09/10/13 10:33 AM Re: noob [Re: Jude]
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Registered: 09/08/13
Posts: 15
jude, thanks. i will do my best to remember that facing it is the only way i can make this better. i just cringed after i typed that. temporary fixes sound so much more appealing right now. wish there was an easier way...

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#446817 - 09/10/13 10:58 AM Re: noob [Re: newground]
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Registered: 09/08/13
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thanks newground. i'm kind of amazed at the support, understanding, and validation i'm getting from you guys... though i'm still hoping someone will pop up and say that a lifetime of denial worked out great for him... anybody? jk. thanks again. i'll try to keep at it smile

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#447073 - 09/13/13 04:49 AM Re: noob [Re: kasper]
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Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3350
Loc: O Kanada
welcome kasper!

in my humble opinion, you have made the right choice by participating in this forum. it takes a great deal of courage just to make your introduction. congratulations!

i have had nothing but positive results from my experience here on ms.org.

hope you do too!
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#447687 - 09/19/13 08:32 PM Re: noob [Re: kasper]
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Registered: 09/02/11
Posts: 229
Loc: United States
Originally Posted By: kasper
i need to get rid of my habit of denying, diminishing, downplaying, and acting indifferent about what happened. honestly, the thought of making myself more vulnerable is making me physically nauseous right now.


You hit it right on the head about being vulnerable and sometimes it is all that stops us from moving forward and it is also something we retreat too.
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