I try to answer this one.
The adult sexually touching the child-----This happens of course very much with my coach. It is actual, I realize that he touch us all in that
way. He would touch us in private areas, tell us he is making sure our clothes fit right, not too tight to perform at our sport. But he would
linger his hands on us in those areas. Then for me, and for others I am sure, it goes past that into much more serious things.
Having the child touch the adult sexually------This is how he start to take it beyond just him touching me wrong. He would make me to touch him,
and then go more to do other things for him in sexual way. This one worries me, I think there is more of this one, and the one above, with another
person also. Have to talk more at my friend who brings it up at me. Do not want to say more of this now
Photographing the child for sexual purposes-----He does not do this in sexual way. But I see him sometimes, he will watch video of our practice
work, and watch it in his office as he does his self-pleasure.
Sexualized talk-----I do not know that this happens from him. He speaks always most vulgar, but I do not know that he does what this includes.
Showing the child pornographic materials or making them available to the child-----No, I do not think this happens with him
Making fun of or ridiculing the child's sexual development, pereferences, or organs-----This, this happen much. He was watch us shower, and change clothes, no one liked that very well. He will watch us close with this, and sometimes he make comment about other people's body parts. And he always call me "queer" and "faggot". He say that at some other people too.
The adult exposing his or her genitals to the child for sexual gratification-----Yes, of course this must happen with him, he does much more than this
Masturbating or otherwise being sexual in front of the child-----Yes, this happens some, but not often, he do more than this at me
Voyeurism-----I do not know what this is
Forcing overly rigid rules on dress or overly revealing dress-----No, I do not think of this that he does. But as I say, he does touch us and he choose what we wear to compete
Stripping to hit or spank, or getting sexual excitement out of hitting-----Who is it that has clothes off? This means that the adult takes
clothes off to hit or spank the child? Or that the child has pants down for spanking? My father, he will do that sometimes before he leaves us
Verbal and emotional abuse of a sexual nature-----I can not say it all, but yes, this is big part of what he does at me. And it is not of sexual
part, but he always call me fat, ugly also
Having the child be sexual with animals-----No
Engaging the child in prostitution-----Do not wish to speak of this
Witnessing others being sexually abused("Abused Boys" pp 8 & 9)-----No, other than as I say before
I am sorry, this is most I respond at a post, I need to leave now for a while. To think of all this, it makes me stay thinking.
Avatar photo in memory of my younger brother Makar.
"Human salvation lies in the hands of the creatively maladjusted."~~~Martin Luther King Jr., 1963