No problem I don't take offence to your comment. I'm not calling the grandmother stupid, I mean it is stupid to try to use the fact that they slept in the same bedroom as a positive spin on the situation. Sure I understand they may have been doing their best in a bad situation (I know a mother who sleeps with her 9 year old daughter because they only have one room), and agree that as survivors we may project bad ideas on the situation, but it isn't a positive point in my mind, and they are using it as proof of a positive, which I think is stupid.
"...until lambs become lions"
I love you, little lewis, and i will never leave you. We are the same. You brighten my day, and i will make sure that i brighten yours. Hugs and kisses.