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#444706 - 08/19/13 05:11 PM Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream
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Edited by concerned_husky (Today at 06:32 AM)
Edit Reason: Reducing ties with MS.

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#444727 - 08/19/13 08:23 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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I am happy for you. You deserve to achieve your dreams. Do not let the b**stards keep you down. I am glad you realize you will no longer be the slave of those try to control you. Your family wants to hold you back--maybe guilt, shame--but that is their issue. Keep moving and go for your dream.

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#444743 - 08/19/13 11:54 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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Where is the like button? :thumbup:

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#445026 - 08/21/13 10:43 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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Hi Husky. Good luck with this man! It certainly is ambitious. I envision you in the next 25 days as being in this kind of Rocky-eque training/practicing montage, although instead of punching animal carcasses in a meat locker and running up stairs, you're just practicing and practicing and practicing your music like crazy. Maybe with "Eye of the Tiger" playing in the background. smile

Good luck buddy! We're all rooting for you. Peace,

Ken

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#445072 - 08/22/13 07:33 AM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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Way to go Husky! I'll just add a couple of quotes from Carl Jung:


"Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes."

"The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves."


Will
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#445116 - 08/22/13 02:48 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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Husky,

This post was really good for me to read right now. It is great to see you pick up something you really enjoy doing, and working toward it with such purpose. Just mustering the energy to do that must feel amazing.

I am a writer and have put some of my own projects on the back burner for a while to deal with the immediate CSA issues that need attention. This post is an inspiration to me that some day on the horizon I will get to this place you are describing here and dive back into it. Thanks so much for putting this out there.
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#445122 - 08/22/13 03:35 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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Husky,

WOW, that was great. Even if you fail or something doesn't go right you will be the winner because you made that effort and once you make the effort the first time the next time will be easier. Pain is the name of the game. You are in pain when you do nothing and let the abuse rule who you are today and you are in pain when you try to confront the effects of the abuse. I think the trick is to realize that the pain from confronting the effects of abuse has a pay off in the end, or at least a chance of a pay off while not doing anything has no chance.

Great realizations and an attack plan for fighting back. I'm sure it's scary, but you already sound pumped and isn't that an awesome feeling.

I'll be pulling hard for you. This is why I may never leave this site - for moments like this.
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"Me too" - I don't think I will ever get tired of saying or hearing these two words.

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http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=441625#Post441625

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#445151 - 08/22/13 06:10 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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Edited by concerned_husky (Today at 06:34 AM)
Edit Reason: Reducing ties with MS.

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#445159 - 08/22/13 08:21 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
Rich1967 Offline
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I think we might have a clue about how much it may mean to you grin; I'm glad we could help and I look forward to hearing how things work out.
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"Me too" - I don't think I will ever get tired of saying or hearing these two words.

My Story:
http://www.malesurvivor.org/board/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=441625#Post441625

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#445627 - 08/27/13 07:49 PM Re: Transcending CSA in Realizing a Dream [Re: concerned_husky]
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I'm really glad to read this post, Husky. Congratulations and good luck on your musical performances!

I wish I could be in the audience (:

I want you to know that your encouragement of me helped a lot in my recent public "performance" of the bed in Berlin and the writing on my blog. Your words gave me courage.

You've got a lot of people on your side. I'm rooting for you.

Geoff
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