Just read the whole thread. Sorry that it was declined.
I knew and associated with the person who abused me for years. I kept my silence to maintain his and my mom's sense of normalcy (and mine). Not anymore though! If I can never see him again that would be awesome. There's nothing I want to say to him or hear from him. Him knowing that I am in no way beholden to him or his influences anymore is enough for me.
Even if you don't feel it you WON! You beat him by being the person you are today. You are an awesome, loving individual that I and, many others here love and care for. Your abuser doesn't deserve your attention and it sounds like he can't hurt anyone anymore. If you want more than I hope you find what you need. In my eyes your a real inspiration for me and many of the other guys here at MS.
I hope you find what you need.