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#79115 - 05/12/06 04:22 AM No
newo Offline
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Registered: 01/09/06
Posts: 55
Loc: CA, USA
No
OKW
May 5, 2006

For My Wife and Lover
In The Journey of Sexual Healing


The answer is NO.
No no no no…NO!
Whatever you’re asking…
NO!

“Take off your pants down and lay on the floor.”
No
“May I hug you. You’re so beautiful.”
No
“Lick my dick!”
No.
“She’s gonna kiss you, like it or not.”
No
“Keep our secret.”
No.

No, no, no, no, …NO!
No…to you and you and you and you and all of you. NO.

When my wife says…Take off your pants and lay on the floor.
I say “Okay!”
When my wife says "May I hug you."
I say “Sure!”
When my wife says “Kiss me, you fool!”
I say “I’m no fool!” as I pucker up and plant a big wet one on her lips.”
When my wife says “Let’s go away…to a secret place.”
I say “Agreed!”

My answer, to HER sexual invitations, has been “Yes” for 23 years of holy matrimony.
But to you and you and you and you and the rest of you…
(You know who you ar!.)
The answer is No.
Still, No!
Again, No!
No no no no…NO!

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Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much
"Religion is for those afraid of going to hell. Spirituality is for those who have already lived through it."

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#79116 - 05/12/06 04:33 AM Re: No
WalkingSouth Offline
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Registered: 08/30/05
Posts: 16264
OKW,

I like that!
Quote:
But to you and you and you and you and the rest of you…
(You know who you ar!.)
The answer is No.
Still, No!
Again, No!
No no no no…NO!
Thank-you.

Lots of love,

John

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“Life’s journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting ‘Holy ____…! What a ride!’” ~Hunter S. Thompson

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#79117 - 05/12/06 03:27 PM Re: No
Derdlecar Offline
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Registered: 11/08/05
Posts: 1314
Loc: Ogden Utah, USA
OKW,

I like this one, Thanks for posting, You show courage!

Love ya

Darrel

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If a man would get his life on track, he must first go back to the place where it was derailed.

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#79118 - 05/12/06 08:31 PM Re: No
roadrunner Offline
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Registered: 05/02/05
Posts: 22045
Loc: Carlisle, PA
OKW,

You hit on a problem that still torments me – wanting to be intimate with my wonderful wife while reliving the hell of abuse. Thanks for expressing this so honestly.

Much love,
Larry

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Nobody living can ever stop me
As I go walking my freedom highway.
Nobody living can make me turn back:
This land was made for you and me.
(Woody Guthrie)

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#79119 - 05/13/06 04:29 AM Re: No
Derdlecar Offline
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Registered: 11/08/05
Posts: 1314
Loc: Ogden Utah, USA
Larry,

That is a problem I have too, separating the abuse from genuine love.

Love ya

Darrel

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If a man would get his life on track, he must first go back to the place where it was derailed.

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#79120 - 05/13/06 03:25 PM Re: No
EGL Offline
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Registered: 06/19/04
Posts: 7821
OKW - What a great poem! I love the way you show such power and resolve in it. Very inspiring.

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#79121 - 05/13/06 11:48 PM Re: No
newo Offline
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Registered: 01/09/06
Posts: 55
Loc: CA, USA
Darrel..
I think sometimes that as much as I didn't deserve to be sexually messed up, I also DO deserve to enjoy normal marriage sex with my beloved wife. I have a responsibility to her sexually...both to give and recieve genuine affection and intimate pleasure. So making that separation is key.

OKW

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Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much
"Religion is for those afraid of going to hell. Spirituality is for those who have already lived through it."

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#443319 - 08/05/13 02:52 AM Re: No [Re: newo]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3126
Loc: O Kanada
a big YES to your NO.

holy matrimony.
a phrase i have never used to describe my 22 year marriage, but i sure like the sound of it.
i think i might adopt that.

thanks for reminding me how lucky i am to have a partner to share my life with.
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