Sorry I didn't see one this before. My experience is that BOTH church & T are quite valuable. I have arranged my time to allow for both - because both work, for me. I did leave the catholic church - just couldn't stay focused because I was abused by a priest. Sooo I am now a Methodist, with a female pastor ! We all need to look for "the grey in the middle" and find our niche.
I would still be crazy w/o the Therapy and I would be crazy w/o my God in my life. Pls don't give up on T; just get it ALL out or it's a waste of money & your life's wonderful possibilities.
Everyone DESERVES Recovery, IF they WANT it.
Anything worth it, takes mucho Time & Willingness.