I think it hits the right balance between personal vulnerability and respect for his feelings - gives him the freedom to respond however he wishes - or not.
I agree. This is an excellent approach. I had the opportunity of being on the opposite side of an exchange like this. Last year, another victim of the same perp contacted me. At first I was shocked...because that meant that someone else other than a select few and MSers knew or remembered. This isn't an exact analog of what you are doing, but I will say that after I determined that the other guy was legit, his insight opened up new avenues in my recovery. Some of it was painful to hear, but ultimately the pieces of the puzzle he brought to the table filled in several crucial gaps.
Way to go! I hope this is productive for you.
I ask you to judge me by the enemies I have made. --FDR
I remember redwood trees, bumper cars and wolverines
The ocean's Trident submarines
Lemons, limes and tangerines
I remember this… R.E.M. 1988Cruel SummerMy Journal