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#441991 - 07/24/13 09:15 AM Its been a year of progress
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Registered: 07/23/12
Posts: 145
Today marks one year since I joined MS, I can say that many milestones have been reached while here. So many have been here for me and helped me muddle through the haze that has been my life for so long. Last year on this day I was at the end of my rope, nothing made sense and the pain I was feeling was unlike anything I had ever felt before. I spent hours curled up crying while my soul was slowly being torn to pieces. I never would have thought that today, I would be ok. I have taken inventory of my self my emotions and my outlook on life and pieced them all together so that I can soldier on and continue this journey. These are some of the milestones I have made reached.

I have come to terms and been open and honest about my sexuality.
I know that I am not at fault for what happend to me so long ago
I have made progress reconciling with my father.
I know I am worth the effort needed to recover.
I have lost 50 lbs.
I let go of alot of my anger towards those I felt could have prevented my abuse.
I can see a tomorrow, one of joy.
I know I am a strong man, not a scared child.
I have started therapy.
and today I can laugh and smile when last year that was not possible.
I like who I am smile

Thanks again guys.... Peace

-Jay-
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#441992 - 07/24/13 09:26 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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Hey Jay,
congratulation on your first year here!

Wow, you made such progress, just proceed like that wink

Pero
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#441995 - 07/24/13 09:36 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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Good to see you posting again Jay - and I'm so, so happy for the milestones you've reached. Proud of you! Keep it up!
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#441996 - 07/24/13 09:38 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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Registered: 02/05/13
Posts: 185
Loc: Western Europe
Congratulations Jay! Not just with the list, but your sharing of it too!

really glad to hear everything is going better each day!

Take care m8!

Peter

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#442001 - 07/24/13 09:57 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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(((((((JAY)))))))

good work, man!
amazing progress.

lee
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and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
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#442107 - 07/25/13 08:45 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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Registered: 07/23/12
Posts: 145
Thanks guys! you are all so supportive!

-Jay-
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#442118 - 07/25/13 11:24 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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#442136 - 07/25/13 01:10 PM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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This thread really caught my eye. So cool to see someone coming out from underneath all the crap we can carry around.
Originally Posted By: jay75

I like who I am smile

That was my favorite part! After a year in therapy I can say that once in a whole too. Looking forward to more progress now that i'm here at MS.

So cool to share this with others who know how great it is.
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#442488 - 07/29/13 07:07 AM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
jay75 Offline


Registered: 07/23/12
Posts: 145
Thanks body guard.
Rich that is my favorite part as well, self acceptance doesnt come easy thanks.

-Jay-
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#442531 - 07/29/13 02:29 PM Re: Its been a year of progress [Re: jay75]
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Registered: 03/25/13
Posts: 132
Loc: Texas
jay75,

love you bro! so happy for you!

my story sound a lot like yours. and knowing the depths i had to go, the struggle its been... i am PROUD of you and me!

keep it up brother. you are worth it. you deserve it!
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