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#441757 - 07/22/13 03:02 PM controlled
bey Offline


Registered: 01/28/10
Posts: 205
Loc: canada
my therapist says that
the way i bite my lip ring
drop my head
and then
half smile at him
is me trying to
control the session
with
sex

ok

then you tell me

how else
am i
supposed
to control
something?

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#441771 - 07/22/13 05:05 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
bodyguard8367 Offline
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Registered: 05/16/12
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Edited by bodyguard8367 (02/27/14 05:46 PM)

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#441782 - 07/22/13 05:55 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3342
Loc: O Kanada
seduction becomes more difficult,
temptations come less frequently,
opportunity stops knocking,
when you start getting old and ugly like me.

day by day, the sexy me fades away.
finally, i begin to feel free.



_________________________
Victor|Victim

War
Love
Poetry

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#441799 - 07/22/13 08:12 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
bey Offline


Registered: 01/28/10
Posts: 205
Loc: canada
Vic and BG,

Oh my god, your responses had me laughing out loud at the absurdity of this situation. Because you are both so right. And ya, I am not young, i maybe have 5 years of adult left before I turn the corner towards middle aged. I didn't realize this flirting stuff was a problem until today at therapy, but the more I think about it the more I see truth in it.
So, I'll just change my whole way of being and all will be well. Easy peasy.
Ben

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#441814 - 07/22/13 10:19 PM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
Shyshark Offline


Registered: 10/30/12
Posts: 412
Loc: Canada
I am old and ugly ...

HOORAY !!!!

I have been freed by a non-existent hairline
and the tub of lard that once was a waistline.

The urge is gone
the need has ceased
finally
freed of the beast
_________________________
Experience is a brutal teacher.

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#441850 - 07/23/13 07:08 AM Re: controlled [Re: bey]
bey Offline


Registered: 01/28/10
Posts: 205
Loc: canada
thanks for the feedback, shy shark
the inevitableness of not even being an issue both calms and terrifies me
like most things
ben

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