Vic and BG,
Oh my god, your responses had me laughing out loud at the absurdity of this situation. Because you are both so right. And ya, I am not young, i maybe have 5 years of adult left before I turn the corner towards middle aged. I didn't realize this flirting stuff was a problem until today at therapy, but the more I think about it the more I see truth in it.
So, I'll just change my whole way of being and all will be well. Easy peasy.
Nothing worth having comes without some kind of fight
Got to kick at the darkness 'till it bleeds daylight