Welcome Jak. Thank you for your note in my Trying to Start introduction. I also know how addictive porn can be as I was introduced to it and groomed with it very young. I heard once that I could break the porn habit if I could go 21 days without it, taking it on one day at a time. That worked for me, I don't go to porn sites anymore.
Welcome to the site, and there are a lot of good people here so you are not alone either. I am glad you found this place and hope you find support, love, comfort and healing here. Since joining last July I started T (therapy) and am moving forward, even when it feels like a turtle pace I still know I'm doing that now. Again, welcome Brother.
“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” - Plato