The most I cried ever in my life was over a friend, who's story mirrored mine so much, and being unable to help him.
I think it's so sad to see someone hurting and to want to fix it and to find yourself impossibly ill-equipped to fix them. It would be so nice to be able to carry someone's pain for them. Sometimes I think the only thing we can do is to stand with them. But that can seem like too little a lot of the time.
Thanks Husky, I think a lot of people can relate to what you wrote.
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me.