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#441000 - 07/16/13 02:27 AM doing the motions V. actually working on recovery
Cthulhu Offline

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Edited by Cthulhu (12/31/13 12:07 AM)
“what matters most is how well you walk through the fire”
-Charles Bukowski

some context

#441005 - 07/16/13 03:01 AM Re: doing the motions V. actually working on recovery [Re: Cthulhu]
little big man Offline

Registered: 06/19/10
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Hi I would say just keep doing it, better than not taking risks. Theripy and groups etc. For me my trust was taken away in childhood and ive suffered a lot in my life because I don't trust. I don't want to wear no trust as a medal anymore. I have to decide to trust things now as a solution. Or spend time with worry and worst case scenario assumtions.
I have to come around and go back to trusting. I am not at risk of being abused or molested so I don't need to stay at high alert or paraniod of peoples motives.

Edited by little big man (07/16/13 03:03 AM)


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