Hi,

REMEMBER ANY DECISION WE MAKE DOESNT JUST EFFECT US , BUT OUR FAMILIES AND LOVED ONES.

everyone take a deep breath, what a discussion about being gay or not.

First realize we have all been sexually, physically, and mentally abused,that comes with
the territory. We have all had thoughts of being gay, pornography issues,etc.

Now each person determines how they are going to live their lives, see God doesn't force anything on us, he gives us a free will and we can and are able to choose. As people if we have to argue over out sexual desires,needs or wants, their must be some confusion of right and wrong. Make a list of the benefits of being gay, then a list of benefits being straight. Now the list should be the whole life cycle (THAT IS WHEN YOU GET OLD AND GRAY, OR WHAT WILL YOU DIE FROM, WHAT LEGACY WILL YOU LEAVE BEHIND FOR YOUR LOVED ONES.

THIS IS A PERSONAL LIST. I DO NOT WANT TO MAKE JUDGEMENT ON ANYONE OF YOU,
I JUST KNOW THAT TO LIVE A HEALTHY LIFE,YOU MUST BE HEALTHY IN MIND BODY
AND SPIRIT AND IF YOU HAVE TO DEFEND YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFESTYLE,STEP BACK
AND THING ABOUT WHY YOU HAVE TOO.


THANKS

hello dbr1955. I read the above post of BOTH this set of pages and the set of pages for GAY SURVIVORS. before I make any comment, what are you trying to tell us? By the way, I think it is a damn good post. thanks, bosishere

Thanks for the comment
My intention is not to tell you anything , it is to make you realize your thoughts and to just take a deep breath, sit back , relax, and honestly take a look at who you are today, who you wanted to be yesterday, and who you are going to be when this earthly life is over.
Is not the old saying true. YOu make your own bed you lay in it. How about the natural consquences of natural choices ( If you speed thru a red light and get killed and kill somebody else, that is a consquence of your choice.)

take care ya all!

why a list of gay or straight,how bout abuser or protecter,co-abuser or bystander, how bout abuser or abusee,life sould be about braking the cycles built in our minds,scared on our flesh,burned into our eyes,gouged into our soullessness, if i have been dealt the blow of death and my soulless carcess is to walk this hell for eternity, then my list well be to just hand back to god,that happy,cheerfull,joyful child, he intended to inspire the contacts that would have given him choices for a normal existence. its not a long list i know,but could i just have a new begaining, i promise to get it right next time.

Thunderbolt,

I like what you have to say here.

John

thank you,,i have a hard time with compliments, i dont deserve them and have found that i self sabitoge, it can also make me isolate,well thats enough bullshit for now.....