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#435902 - 05/26/13 06:56 PM Re: my story [Re: StrugglingGuy]
StrugglingGuy Offline


Registered: 05/20/13
Posts: 48
Loc: Canada
Thanks Guys for the feedback. I'm not asking for anyone's validation but welcome the support anytime. I honestly don't think he was a pedophile.. even though he did have sex with me. It was wrong and I know that.. and he more than anyone knew that. I'm not blaming myself for what happened either. The law is the law and a grown Man can not have sex with an 11 year old Boy.. its that simple.

Thanks again for your reply!

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#435906 - 05/26/13 06:59 PM Re: my story [Re: StrugglingGuy]
StrugglingGuy Offline


Registered: 05/20/13
Posts: 48
Loc: Canada
Thanks Guys for the feedback. I'm not asking for anyone's validation but welcome the support anytime. I honestly don't think he was a pedophile.. even though he did have sex with me. It was wrong and I know that.. and he more than anyone knew that. I'm not blaming myself for what happened either. The law is the law and a grown Man can not have sex with an 11 year old Boy.. its that simple.

Thanks again for your reply!

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#435928 - 05/26/13 11:35 PM Re: my story [Re: StrugglingGuy]
Dave PNW Offline


Registered: 04/03/13
Posts: 111
Loc: Pacific Northwest
Struggling Guy. You are on a good path. I have found a lot of support and insights here. I am sorry you have to be here with all of us. It takes a lot of courage to take the steps you have taken. I wish you peace and I hope you find some healing here.

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#436010 - 05/27/13 07:15 PM Re: my story [Re: StrugglingGuy]
StrugglingGuy Offline


Registered: 05/20/13
Posts: 48
Loc: Canada
Thanks dw

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#436054 - 05/28/13 08:51 AM Re: my story [Re: StrugglingGuy]
jay75 Offline


Registered: 07/23/12
Posts: 145
SG,

I remember my first days here on MS, they were what seems to be the worst days of my life. I couldn't see the Sun through the clouds nor could I see a tomorrow but the support I received here on MS help me to see the Sun peeking through the clouds. your story is not much different than my own, and I received a lot of insight into what I was dealing with from some other members here that was invaluable. stay strong my friend!

A fellow survivor on here by the name of "Cant Remember" really put things into perspective for me with one phrase......
"Those are not your sins"

Heal Well Bro

-Jay-
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"Those are not your sins" A wise man

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#436064 - 05/28/13 11:26 AM Re: my story [Re: StrugglingGuy]
StrugglingGuy Offline


Registered: 05/20/13
Posts: 48
Loc: Canada
Hey Jay:

Thanks so much for the support. It truly means a lot!

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