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#399056 - 05/31/12 10:46 PM Dugslife.
douglaswil Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 02/26/12
Posts: 35
Loc: Russellville, AR
Hello Men: my name is Doug and I am 30 years old. I've been married eight years and we have an 18 month old daughter. My wife and I both work in higher education and we love it.

I was molested by my step-dad when I was eight years old and it went on for two years. I have struggled with life ever since.

I'm an alum of the Dalongah(spell?) 2012 weekend of recovery and I highly recommend you go. Life changing.
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Doug
www.dugslife.com
I am DOUG, not Egbert!

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#399121 - 06/01/12 10:47 AM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
traveler Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 02/07/06
Posts: 3377
Loc: somewhere in Africa
hey, doug - welcome!!

i too was abused by a step-father. and it has affected everything ever since.

just to let you know - i get it.

in a way i envy you - you are starting to deal with it way younger than i. lots of better years ahead!

all the best on your journey...
Lee
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As my life goes on I believe somehow something's changed
Something deep inside...
I've been searchin so long to find an answer
Now I know my life has meaning
Now I see myself as I am, feeling very free...
When my tears have come to an end I will understand
What I left behind: a part of me. Chicago


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#399142 - 06/01/12 03:10 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
peroperic2009 Offline
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MaleSurvivor

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3603
Loc: South-East Europe
Hi Doug,
I've just seen your other post where you talking about attending WOR and seeing your self as not so successful as other survivors. Someone asked question what is success in that post.
Well let me tell you something, if I could chose I would like more to be married and have wife and child than to have some high positioned career. Happiness is not somewhere outside of us, we all have to find it in our hearts.
You already achieved so much, give some credit to yourself, you deserve it man!
I can't wait to find some more gems from you and your life, I have some feeling that there is much more wink!
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My story

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#399147 - 06/01/12 04:18 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
ANDREW63 Offline


Registered: 08/27/11
Posts: 164
Loc: Australia
Hi Doug , WELCOME to MS , i was only 8 when my grandfather started molesting me and it carried on until i was 11 years old ,please remember we are all here for you Mate .cheers Andrew.
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LOOK AT ME NOW I AM A SURVIVOR !My inner child and I are now doing this together !

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#435762 - 05/25/13 12:14 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
douglaswil Offline
Member
MaleSurvivor

Registered: 02/26/12
Posts: 35
Loc: Russellville, AR
Hey guys, sorry I have been away for so long..life has gotten in the way.

I hope to update more often and get more involved.
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Doug
www.dugslife.com
I am DOUG, not Egbert!

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#435765 - 05/25/13 12:46 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
newground Offline
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Registered: 10/11/11
Posts: 753
Loc: michigan
hey doug
so good to hear from you man! good to know things are going OK hope to hear much more of the same man. hope you know you can PM me any time if ya care to chat. in case you don't know I'm Jeff from WoR
be well man
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Towards thee I roll, thou all-destroying but unconquering whale; to the last I grapple with thee; from hell's heart I stab at thee; for hate's sake I spit my last breath at thee. let me then tow to pieces, while still chasing thee, thou damned whale! Thus, I give up the spear!"
Herman Melville

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#435782 - 05/25/13 04:17 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
victor-victim Offline


Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3333
Loc: O Kanada
hi doug.

welcome to the forum.

looking forward to hearing more from you.
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Victor|Victim

War
Love
Poetry

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#435802 - 05/25/13 10:12 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
Jude Offline


Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1513
Loc: New England
Welcome back Doug,

Good thing we all have a lifetime membership here. You never know when you'll need a refresher. Hope you find all you need.

Jude
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I went back to the doctor
To get another shrink.
I sit and tell him about my weekend,
But he never betrays what he thinks.
Can you see the real me, doctor?.
The Who

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#435863 - 05/26/13 12:11 PM Re: Dugslife. [Re: douglaswil]
douglaswil Offline
Member
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Registered: 02/26/12
Posts: 35
Loc: Russellville, AR
Thanks guys. Yes I am glad we have lifetime membership as well.:)
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Doug
www.dugslife.com
I am DOUG, not Egbert!

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