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#435767 - 05/25/13 01:04 PM His name was Timmy
Timmy68 Offline

Registered: 05/12/13
Posts: 2
Loc: Central FL
never mind

#435778 - 05/25/13 03:33 PM Re: His name was Timmy [Re: Timmy68]
peroperic2009 Offline

Registered: 10/09/11
Posts: 3603
Loc: South-East Europe
Hello Tim and welcome to Male survivor!
You found good place for dealing with issues that you went trough. It is sad fact that many of us have similar problems that last for so long. It is much easier when knowing that we are not alone.
So we are here to give support to each other, to learn about healing and recovery and to share our stories.

One more time welcome!

My story

#435780 - 05/25/13 04:10 PM Re: His name was Timmy [Re: Timmy68]
victor-victim Offline

Registered: 09/27/03
Posts: 3333
Loc: O Kanada
welcome tim.

i am 52 and still learning.

i have learned a lot on this website.

hope it helps you.


#435803 - 05/25/13 10:19 PM Re: His name was Timmy [Re: Timmy68]
Jude Offline

Registered: 08/09/12
Posts: 1513
Loc: New England
Originally Posted By: Timmy68
I am a struggling survivor who at times still feels like a "victim".
Welcome Tim,

Overcoming that "victim" identity is a good first goal. Most of us have been there. Ther boy you were was the victim. The man you are now is a SURVIVOR! Despite the damage done to you, you have made it to this point of having the courage to deal with it all. Well done! Now go for it.

I went back to the doctor
To get another shrink.
I sit and tell him about my weekend,
But he never betrays what he thinks.
Can you see the real me, doctor?.
The Who

#435806 - 05/25/13 10:35 PM Re: His name was Timmy [Re: Timmy68]
genedebs Offline

Registered: 11/09/12
Posts: 285
Loc: MO
welcome Tim

I may be a survivor, but like you I have not resolved my being a victim.

This is a safe place for me, I hope you find it so for yourself.

There are times when I can't tell that it is 2013 and not 1963.

Well I hope you find what you need

We all have different stories and we all are just the same


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