be assured that you are not alone. so many times the feelings,triggers, and more drive us to act in ways that are NOT healthy. Porn,acting out,drugs and drinking are not at all uncommon ways that survivors use to numb that ache inside. you are welcome here and I hope that you will make full use of the resources here not the least of which are your brother survivors. healing IS possible man through talk,therapy,tools for the journey. but it is not a pleasant hike. it is an incredible journey and a climb of inestimable strength. you have begun a new chapter here and I hope it proves helpful, I believe it will. feel free to pm me if I can help in any way or you will likely see me on chat should you go there
Edited by newground (05/23/13 10:18 AM)
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Either I will find a way, or I will make one.