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#435601 - 05/23/13 06:41 PM Loving him was easy
Pie Offline

Registered: 05/27/11
Posts: 61
Loving my husband WAS the easiest thing I have ever done, even though the abuse was horrid.

Letting him go WAS the most painful thing I have endured, even worse than abuse he bestowed on me.

Loving myself is now the most liberating thing I have experienced.


I have become a brand new person. Not just happy but joyful, peaceful and confident beyond my own expectations. The weight and drama are gone and the world is even more beautiful than I ever imagined. I may be working 4 jobs to look after my little Angels, but they are worth it. I know its not true, but I feel like I'm the most blessed woman alive.

My survivor has left and my family is thriving emotionally. I so desperately wanted healing for him, he never worked on healing for himself.

Its been a long journey and I once thought the destination was a complete and happy family. And today I find myself in an oasis with my beautiful children and we are so much more than just content.


#435603 - 05/23/13 07:32 PM Re: Loving him was easy [Re: Pie]
Candu Offline

Registered: 06/30/12
Posts: 312
Loc: Canada
Hi Pie. I'm glad you have found a better path. I hope a friend of mine will find that sooner rather than later.


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